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| Author: | stiffmeister [ Sun Jan 20, 2013 3:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Married Woman--Need second opinion |
Ok, the title gives it all away. I'm on vacation home away from school. Last night my sis invites me to like some restaurant cause there's a bunch of people getting drinks. Anyhow, I get there super late and had a good time made some great jokes and we left within 30 mins. I drove up to my sis n her friend D and asked if I will see them later. At first she was like uhh no, I was like oh come on you have nothing better to do. She giggled n said ok. I figured she'd come with her husband and whoever else. In the meantime, I picked up my really good friend (female) and we headed to my sisters. So, at the house, it was me, my sister, my friend, and sister's bf. Married girl (D) apparently went to drop off her friend and was coming over by herself..hmmmm A little breakdown on the married girl: Married (obviously), very mature for her age, gorgeous (she could be Anne Hathaway's identical twin), my age (21 so my age and she's younger than her husband who's a good lookin' guy and is in a band--they sound pretty good too not going to lie), and awesome personality. Anyhow, best part was when she showed up I was doing my trademark dance and from the get go since she got there I just had the party rollin' We played like 10 different card games drank beer and finally sat down to watch a movie. During the card game, I'd make jokes all time and she'd always laugh and I'd catch her watching me from the corner of my eye. I knew there was some kind of attraction between us and was intrigued by it to say the least. Ok, so D sits next to my sister on the couch and I sat next to my friend and sis' bf on other couch. My sister immediately fell asleep and left to sleep in her bed at end of movie. So, this is where it got interesting. My sis bf put in another movie and I went to get a bag of chips, came back and sat on the middle of the two couches and asked who wants to eat chips with me (I was praying my sis bf said no and my friend as well) well lucky me D said I do and I quickly responded k then i'll sit next to you and I sat down and to quickly not make it awkward I said "just don't eat all my goddamn chips" -she smiled. So, I knew I was in safe zone. ok, so every time she went in to grab a chip she would place her elbow on my upper thigh and leave it lingering and dig in a little. At first she was awkward about it and said i'm sorry and I didn't say a thing to make it seem like it didn't phase me and that it was normal. As the movie progressed she kept getting closer n closer and kept changing positions often as if she was having an internal battle within herself (should I do this or not?!). She kept getting up and then every time she sat down she'd get closer and she was drinking a lot of water so I figured she was nervous about something or at unease. Anyhow, at one part of the movie my hand was on her arm and I could feel her muscles twitching. Her hands were placed on her crotch area and she kept moving around and moaning and I asked her quietly if she's ok and she said, "oh yeah my stomach hurts" I kinda laughed and smiled giving her the hint that I knew what was going on and I said "you want me to rub your 'belly' to make you feel better" and she kinda smiled and put her covers up and leaned on me and she just kept doing the sighing and moaning pulling it off really well cause my sister's bf n my friend were oblivious and then I knew she came cause like she instantly sorta wrapped her arm around mine and just cuddled like what most girls do after an orgasm and she was really relaxed I could just sense it by her body language. Ok, so here comes the disappointing part, my sis' bf kept like forcing her to go sleep with my sister (secretly I think he wanted to just have a fantasy cuddle sleep session by sleeping in middle of my sister and D LOL. So, she got frustrated and faintly said "this is so annoying" and was like I think I'm gonna go home and she did at 5am. She said she didn't have contacts and couldn't sleep over lol D texted my sister today that she had a blast last night (the movies were boring as shit and we didn't do anything particularly interesting) and she wants to hangout again tonight without her husband coming over according to my sister. Here's the breakdown: I know she's not a slut because my sis and her are really close and she tells my sis everything and she's never done anything to cheat on her husband. I didn't instigate anything last night and she kept coming closer and closer to me and obviously masturbated while laying on me. We are going hot tubbing tonight and there might be more people coming over as well so it can be a good opportunity to see if it's just me that she really likes or she's just a flirt. But I've been with plenty of women who have had boyfriends before and she seems like she's really feeling me. Ok, so now I want two cents from you guys. What should I do? Should I just allow her to instigate and then eventually make my move or do you guys think it's wrong. I mean, I only think it's wrong personally if I was the one manipulating and playing "the game" on her but I didn't do such thing except the whole chips fiasco but again after that she played all the cards. If we go in the hot tubb do you guys think I should try something underneath the bubbles like maybe hold her arm or place it on her thigh IDK i've never been in this situation. I've had girls willingly cheat on their boyfriends with me but not a married woman. Yeah, she's my age (young) but still marriage is a big deal and cheating is not forgivable when married. IDK if I want to ruin a marriage or not the guy seemed nice. I still don't know her well enough to know if I really like her or not. If I did, then I'd do everything in my power to sway her if I knew she was the one. Obviously I just met her for first time and i'm really feeling her. HELP HELP HELP Usually, I have very good one on one game but I'm in a pickle of a mess right now |
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| Author: | samloyal23 [ Sun Jan 20, 2013 4:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Married Woman--Need second opinion |
Once, when I was in college, I was flirting with a girl when she mentioned something about her husband. I apologized for hitting on her, but she just said, "It's okay, some women are more married than others..." I never hooked up with her, unfortunately, but her words stuck in my mind. Just treat her like any other woman. Do not worry about her relationships. But have an escape plan. NEVER have sex at her place. EVER! |
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| Author: | stiffmeister [ Sun Jan 20, 2013 4:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Married Woman--Need second opinion |
Quote: Once, when I was in college, I was flirting with a girl when she mentioned something about her husband. I apologized for hitting on her, but she just said, "It's okay, some women are more married than others..."
Thanks, that's actually pretty good advice.I never hooked up with her, unfortunately, but her words stuck in my mind. Just treat her like any other woman. Do not worry about her relationships. But have an escape plan. NEVER have sex at her place. EVER! Almost half of Americans get divorced anyways, so for all I know I could be her escape. Yeah, most definitely wouldn't put myself in a situation like that. |
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| Author: | kate6 [ Mon Jan 21, 2013 6:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Married Woman--Need second opinion |
I agree with the above poster, but just know that sleeping with a married woman comes with MUCH more potential for serious drama and pain. You're helping her lie to her husband... a lie that could lead to divorce and you'd be a part of that. Flirting is fine... stroke each other's egos. But even if someone is unhappy in their relationship, I'd take my time and make sure that either a) the spouse is ok with it or b) the cheater is already wanting to divorce their spouse for other reasons, and I'm not being used as a pawn to cuckold an innocent spouse. I try not to do anything that I wouldn't want done to me. |
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| Author: | gtdave [ Mon Jan 21, 2013 3:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Married Woman--Need second opinion |
Quote: I agree with the above poster, but just know that sleeping with a married woman comes with MUCH more potential for serious drama and pain. You're helping her lie to her husband... a lie that could lead to divorce and you'd be a part of that. Flirting is fine... stroke each other's egos. But even if someone is unhappy in their relationship, I'd take my time and make sure that either a) the spouse is ok with it or b) the cheater is already wanting to divorce their spouse for other reasons, and I'm not being used as a pawn to cuckold an innocent spouse.
I try not to do anything that I wouldn't want done to me. I agree! I'd be uncontrollably angry if I found out someone was doing this with my wife. I've no problem with a dude hitting on my wife if he doesn't know her relationship status but if a guy already knows she's married and openly tries to disrespect me and break up my marriage? Put it this way OP if you knew what I'd do to you if you where doing this to me then you would not even consider moving forward! |
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| Author: | samloyal23 [ Thu Jan 24, 2013 2:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Married Woman--Need second opinion |
Try not to wreck a happy home. On the other hand, if you can get them to swing you can end up in some nice orgies... |
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