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| Author: | Wizzay [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 1:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | One-itis in social circle.. |
So guys, Time to throw my question/story in here. This is gonna be more of a discussion then help me because I actually know my shit.. I hope. So this girl I used to know a long time ago(2years) had a bf, and her girlfriend is the girlfriend of my friend. Thats how I got to know her, we flirted a bit , but nothing serieus, sometimes texts but nothing concrete so I moved on and went for others, didn't talk to her for a LONG time(1 year) in that year she broke up with her bf of 2 years and met a new one, she has now 9 months with him. Story is, right now she is actually in my close social circle, her 2 friends both fuck with my 2 friends, and im stuck with her having a boyfriend,( so its 3 girls 3 guys social circle). The other 2 guys fuck their girls all the time and mine is always flirty with me but I have the feeling she sees me just as a friend, but still flirty. One time I thought fuck it , imma try to get her of just move on. I tried, failed(maybe not..), she was like I got a bf. I can't. etc.. I was like stop thinking logically and go with your emotions while I was kissing her neck etc, but she took a step away, and instead of getting persistent I just let her walk away..(mistake??) so I see her 1 time a week at her friends house where we chill and then go out, and sometimes after going out come back to that house, and she starts lying next to me, with her head on my shoulders/chest. See what im getting at? Shes driving me nuts, doing stuff that a girl normally wouldn't do, only if interested in a guy, but then again when I try she backs off. Is she teasing me? Am I friendzoned? What to do now.. because she is in the social circle(Can't get out of it) I see her atleast once a week.. so forgetting her is kind of hard. And each week I flirt more and more, dance with her and she grinds on me etc.. Try again, but this time be more seductive? Btw she never talks about the boyfriend. Im sorry if my story is unclear but I tried to give as much as relevant info as I could, and will answer all questions. Btw this is a half one-itis as im still gaming other girls , but for some reason (big breasts:P?) im really attracted to this one, and my friends fucking her friends would make it more fun if I fuck her to.. catch my drift? Thanks in advance, btw im sorry if this is in the wrong section |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 4:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: One-itis in social circle.. |
Ok, I think I understand this one. She's basically got her boyfriend on the side, so that she feels a sense of normalcy compared to her girlfriends who also have their own guys. But since her guy is always away, she needs another source of male attention. That's where you come into play since you are the one single guy who is there. So she does all her flirty girl stuff with you that all girls do, but she doesn't want to feel bad or slutty about cheating on her official boyfriend, so she draws the line in the sand with you and doesn't allow sexual escalation. The more you push the more she thinks "I need to be good!" and puts up more resistance. What I would do is try to make her jealous. Invite another girl over sometime when she is there, and flirt and kiss on that girl in front of her. Or just talk about other girls you like in front of her, maybe ask her opinion on it. You can always try to freeze her out too, and make her chase you. But big tittied girls with bf's can be an uphill battle. I wouldn't stress too hard on this one. |
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| Author: | Wizzay [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 5:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: One-itis in social circle.. |
Spot on Puaninja, you read the situation exactly right, thats the same conclusion I came to. Yes she told me after I tried kissing her that there is a line, and I said I don't care about lines. Something like that. Make her jealous, hmm sounds good, I always sneaky try for her to see that other girls are texting me, but I didn't see much reaction from her on that part. Taking another girl with me to her friends house is out of the question, simply because they wouldn't like it, and I don't feel comfortable bringing a 4th unknown person to the circle, its good advice tho, just not suitable for this situation, regrettably. However in the club where she sees me I can flirt and kiss with women, while I do that, should I keep it on a minimum, as to not let her think that i'm a man whore? Or just go all out? This type of women confuse me so I don't know what is still acceptable to her. As I know making a women to jealous will make her think she can't have me, escpecially if I freeze her out for the night. Yes, an uphill battle indeed, a very tough one for me. However, a battle I will gladly fight, simply because I can and would like to learn from this experience and share it with others. For example, the night I tried to kiss her, maybe I should've pushed, or made her feel that it wasn't slutty in anyway, maybe then I would've been able to close, don't you think? All opinions/feedback is appreciated! |
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| Author: | Wizzay [ Fri Jan 18, 2013 1:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: One-itis in social circle.. |
Bump, im seeing her tonight, any more tips are appreciated. I will try to make her jealous and halfway freeze her out. for example when she talks, I reply slowly, while not looking at her, be busy with her friends and my friends and not with her, show her that im getting texts etc, and at the club game other women. Lets see how she will behave today |
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| Author: | Wizzay [ Sun Aug 11, 2013 4:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: One-itis in social circle.. |
For the sake of updating. After I came back from vacation, saw her in the club, and she came to me and told me she missed me and started dancing like crazy on me , so I was like alright my chance, kissed her ,tongued her and made it clear im not to be a friends! Got the same bs with friend again, and told her to take her time, while I date others. Freeze out and jealousy plot was done in the club so it worked, or maybe it was because she didnt see for me for so long. |
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