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Author:  The Mellow [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 10:57 am ]
Post subject:  I want to fuck you, but I don't want to date.
Until now I always used to tell girls I met "I'm not looking for anything serious, you should know my intentions are to fool around" or I would convey that line "I just got out of a long-term relationship I am looking for something casual" more so.

My brother, who is good with women, said one day "what the hell are you doing, saying that?", "you're going to make her feel like a whore!"

I thought about this and considered it, now I am "talking" with this girl, but I just want to fuck her brains out with no relationship.

Do you say it directly? Or do you do like my brother says and kind of lead them on or end up manipulating them. I love to be honest, but I don't know how honest I should be in these situations. It has worked for me before and failed too. How do you guys convey that message?

Cheers
Author:  TonyRichards [ Fri Jan 18, 2013 10:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I want to fuck you, but I don't want to date.
I wouldn't say any of that, personally. Your bro is right. Just be flirty and spontaneous and don't mention what is going to happen after you have sex with her.

Not 100% sure how to answer your question, but I hoped it helped a bit.
Author:  Chinopants [ Fri Jan 18, 2013 10:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I want to fuck you, but I don't want to date.
Yup. You don't need to analyses it just have it flow. Girls don't over thing shit like guys do. If she ask just tell her your seeing other girls. Or I like the time we spend together blah.
Author:  smashthecrash [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 6:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I want to fuck you, but I don't want to date.
I wonder the same question myself. I'm pretty decent at getting FWBs, but keeping them for more than a month or two can be tricky. Fortunately, it almost NEVER comes up before you sleep with them, but whenever it does it does require a degree of tact to both keep them around without guaranteeing exclusivity. I think it varies a bit from girl to girl, but regardless you should probably ask your bro or someone else who's good at keeping them around like that.

Oh, and having stellar sex helps a LOT :)

I just started myself a new FWB with a young'n, here's hoping she doesn't fall too quick! Or heaven forbid I do...
Author:  GGplayer [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 6:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I want to fuck you, but I don't want to date.
Quote:
Until now I always used to tell girls I met "I'm not looking for anything serious, you should know my intentions are to fool around" or I would convey that line "I just got out of a long-term relationship I am looking for something casual" more so.

My brother, who is good with women, said one day "what the hell are you doing, saying that?", "you're going to make her feel like a whore!"

I thought about this and considered it, now I am "talking" with this girl, but I just want to fuck her brains out with no relationship.

Do you say it directly? Or do you do like my brother says and kind of lead them on or end up manipulating them. I love to be honest, but I don't know how honest I should be in these situations. It has worked for me before and failed too. How do you guys convey that message?

Cheers
Your brother is half right. You shouldn't ever verbally say crap like that, because it will make women very defensive and it will make you feel like a whore. But you should be communicating your intentions with strong body language and other non-verbal communication, so that when you are resistant to a relationship it doesn't really come as a surprise, but she will still keep coming back to you in hopes that you realize she is the one.

At any rate, I have a 3 fuck rule. Meaning that wait until you've had sex more than twice, and then find out all about her and figure out whether or not you're looking for an LTR.
Author:  GKS [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 5:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I want to fuck you, but I don't want to date.
It has more to do with the way you word it. If you would have said "I'm quite busy with everything going on in my life in the moment. Honestly, I can't do a full blown relationship at the moment. But I really enjoy our time together. It was so much fun, we should do that again ;)", it would be much better.

And generally, don't bring that up unless you're asked. Being honest with your intention and don't lead women on is a good quality of an alpha man. However, pick your moment, I advise to wait till after you actually slept with her. Mention something like that too early in the attraction is a mood kill and it makes you appear too invested and interested in her. You mind set should be "Hey I'm still screening you, if there's something I don't like, bye!"
Author:  Malcolm Thomas [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 5:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I want to fuck you, but I don't want to date.
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I wouldn't say any of that, personally. Your bro is right. Just be flirty and spontaneous and don't mention what is going to happen after you have sex with her.

Not 100% sure how to answer your question, but I hoped it helped a bit.
This is correct. Women are much more likely to listen to your actions than your words anyway. It's easy for a guy to say something. But usually his body language and his whole demeanor will portray him everytime.
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