I meant that more as playfull, than actually meaning that
She`s a cool girl and she knows I`m always joking.
But you are right yeah.. I`ll leave it there
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| Author: | SidTine [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 4:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Flaked-my response |
I know this girl for about a month now and we agreed to go on a drink and then she flaked on me. Besides talking, we didn`t do anything else yet. I`m thinking about texting her back with smth like this: "Hey, I thought you liked me..This game is leading us nowhere :/" What do you guys think? |
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| Author: | Naci [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 5:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
That thing my friend is a sentence of death. Only send it to her if you never want to see her again in your lifetime. |
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| Author: | bartm [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 5:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
no, that's terrible. you might as well say "I am a needy sob" |
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| Author: | Naci [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 5:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
The same happened to me a short time ago. What you need to do is not care. Don't write anything for a while. Pretend you were busy too. Let 2 weeks pass. If this is gonna be hard for you, then you're not in the correct mindset. I never messaged my girl for a month. Couldnt care less. You have to be ready to leave the table at any time. No attention for you? Then no attention for her. |
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| Author: | SidTine [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 5:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
I meant that more as playfull, than actually meaning that She`s a cool girl and she knows I`m always joking. But you are right yeah.. I`ll leave it there
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 5:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
None of that sappy rubbish. Send her an intrigue-generating text message. Could be anything, such as: "This is the worst/best day of my life!" If I heard a complete stranger say that I'd be curious, let alone someone I know. If they don't bite on a line like that, then they don't give two shits about you and you need to just move on. |
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| Author: | SidTine [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 5:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
Puaninja... I see what you mean, but wouldn`t that just be like jumping, waving and screaming to her: Heeey I want some attention, heey!" She might write back, but I don`t know.. I think something more playful or nothing at all is the best thing to do in this situation. |
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| Author: | Naci [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 6:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
Dude, I also wanna say that your signature sucks, and say it one night when you're out there and chances are you won't get much girls. There is something as being a lesbian, and it has nothing to do with anything you have to offer. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 6:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
Quote: Puaninja... I see what you mean, but wouldn`t that just be like jumping, waving and screaming to her: Heeey I want some attention, heey!" She might write back, but I don`t know.. I think something more playful or nothing at all is the best thing to do in this situation.
That's just one of many types of texts you can send her. There are more clever/subtle ones that are meant to make her laugh. It is a little more attention-seeking than other things you could send, but in this case you might need to resort to more extreme measures. Plus, you can always follow that up with "Sorry, meant to send that to someone else." whether or not she responds to it. That will make her even more curious, but also make it seem like you are not just trying to randomly get her attention. Naci, point noted. But I think his sig line was mainly meant as a joke. |
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| Author: | SidTine [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 6:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
Yeah, to build attraction or something-to show that I don`t really care. I`ll figure smth, thanks for tips. First time I was dealing with a flake I answered with:" heh ok..." Like she is weird or smth.. Haha dude, naci, chill out..Looks like you have some issues with this, sorry if I hurt your feelings. And it`s a joke if you haven`t noticed
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| Author: | SidTine [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 2:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
A little update.. I didn`t write her back anything afterwards... And today we saw each other in school in the hallway.. I just normally said hi and then she texted me again saying:"Why are you so in a thoughtful mood?" She`s probably just messing with me to see how I react, but still.. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 2:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
You should make something up about your mom or sister being sent to the hospital for some medical condition. And tell her that is the reason you seem so pensive. She's sitting there trying to shit test you because she thinks you are all butt hurt about her rejecting you. Then you tell her some story that makes her think you are not concerned about her at all, but instead someone else. You might even get some sympathy points from her as well. |
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| Author: | SidTine [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 3:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
I texted:" We have to talk" her:"ok no problem, but probably not on the phone right? what`s the matter?" me:"I`m pregnant" 
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 3:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
Quote: I texted:" We have to talk"
Hardy har. But what did you transition to from there? Now she just thinks you're a jackass.
her:"ok no problem, but probably not on the phone right? what`s the matter?" me:"I`m pregnant" |
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| Author: | ItsAlwaysOn [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 4:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Flaked-my response |
Quote: Dude, I also wanna say that your signature sucks, and say it one night when you're out there and chances are you won't get much girls.
There is something as being a lesbian, and it has nothing to do with anything you have to offer. lol you might be wound a little too tight for this forum... sid- just chill and let her get back to you. this type of thing needs to be nbd for you. when i get flaked on its just like "cool. some other time then" and then pursue other girls. she'll get back to you if shes interested. if not, reopen in a couple of weeks and go from there. |
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