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Author:  smashthecrash [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 6:20 pm ]
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HB8 messages me off OKC, 29 y/o girl with a PhD in my field (psychology). We exchanged numbers, and on text game. About to set up meet, but here's the recent skinny:

Me (noon. Monday): SCAtD.
Her (146pm): What does it stand 4?
Me (209): My nickname for ya. Guess correctly, and I'll invite ya out :)
Her (937am - this morning): My 1st guess would be 'sexy cute, adorable and talented darling'. Is that what it was? ;) if ur answer is positive id consider going out w u :)

I suppose it's time to come up with something clever.
Author:  dark one [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 8:35 pm ]
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Don't worry so much about the out come...invite her out.

You: hahaha I see you don't lack confidence (; You seem like a really cool girl...so far, lets grab a drink this weekend
Author:  dark one [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 8:37 pm ]
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Text game is a continuation of face to face game...you should never try to game a girl over text, you just want to spike her emotions over text, and set up day 2.

If you did your work in field then she will accept a date as long as you don't fuck it up somehow with a text....texting is a great way to build up to the date but don't over do it!
Author:  VietnameseProdigy [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 10:09 pm ]
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doesn't matter what you say, this chick is hooked
Author:  smashthecrash [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 3:34 am ]
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Quote:
Text game is a continuation of face to face game...you should never try to game a girl over text, you just want to spike her emotions over text, and set up day 2.

If you did your work in field then she will accept a date as long as you don't fuck it up somehow with a text....texting is a great way to build up to the date but don't over do it!
That's the idea, mate. And notice, in my OP I said I met her off OKC (there has been no face to face as such - online dating here) but either way I figure she's hooked. A female IRL friend said to reply "That's exactly right! Alright, lets (meet up)" but dark one's example is pretty good as well.

As for gaming a girl over text, I agree, I find it much easier in person to use humor, body language, kino, social proof, etc, all the stuff that's invaluable in gaming that you just can't do over text.

I'll likely be texting her back in the morning, but always open to more clever suggestions! I don't want to seem too easy, and I certainly can't agree with her "sexy cute adorable talented" description since I've NEVER MET HER. Stupid online dating. OH well. I was thinking more along the lines of dark one's suggestion, something like "Confident much? :) Well, we'll see how your guess measures up this weekend when we (meet up)".
Author:  Fly_Swatter [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 8:14 am ]
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A female IRL friend said to reply "That's exactly right! Alright, lets (meet up)"
LMFAO... That's the worst advice I've ever heard, and I'm not surprised it's from a girl. Don't ever rely on girls for pickup advice.

Anyway, even if she's hooked on you, don't fall into her trap because she can always flake. This is her wanting you to shower her with compliments. But don't give in. Compliments from alphas must be earned. "Haha, I wouldn't know that until we meet. You could end up being a creep for all I know. Now here's a hint about your nickname. [hint] Get it right!"
Author:  smashthecrash [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 8:45 am ]
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Yeah, this girl has given me shitty advice before. That's why I hardly listen to girls when it comes to pickup, and come on here instead.

On this HB specifically, she openly told me she has a PD. Therefore, IME with this subject, I have to make her qualify and chase even harder than usual. Your response sounds much more like one I would go with.

Thanks again for text advice, FS. How about this:

"Hah, you sure think highly of yourself, don't you? Gonna hold you to a pretty high standard if we meet now. Hint: the C stands for Crazy. The rest is subject to change :)"
Author:  glowstik [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 10:33 am ]
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Just being "yourself" random, interesting, and exciting s better than any "games".
Careful with a response like that, it's a conversation ender. Conversation enders should be her saying something that you can reply to later or the next day. Your conversation enders should be short and referencing the future meetup, that's it. Giving her "tell tells" that you're over thinking your texts or responses lowers your value
Author:  smashthecrash [ Wed Jan 16, 2013 2:59 pm ]
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Yeah, I'm sure I'll be fine after the meetup. Since this is online dating crap, that's why this stage is pretty important. I'm well aware this chick is mostly just seeking attention/validation... that's why I want to throw her a text that will get her completely off guard, yet still keep interest. Plus, I need something interesting to do for first meet up.

Any more suggestions?

EDIT: How about this. "Haha, how could I know that about someone I've never met? Speaking of which: Friday works for me."

Eh? Oh, and I know I'm overthinking. I *hate* online dating.
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