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Author:  heat2 [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 2:19 pm ]
Post subject:  I moved on, did she ?
Long story short..
Mutual break up with my 7 month gf 20 days ago, we had a big fight..

I'm doing the no contact rule, we haven't talked since the break up. Only her best friends asked me how am I, and did I find some new girls.. silly

Saturday night she was at the same bar that I was in.. I said hi to her, and continued my picking up girls.
I number closed a blonde, and kiss closed a brunnete.. She saw both.. Suddenly my friend comes over saying that she's very sad and drinking heavily. I was suprised becouse she never drinks and hates alchohol. I looked at her, she was all devastated and drunk, her friends where tryin to cheer her up. I leave the bar with a brunnete.

I've moved on and don't intend to contact her, but what do you guys think? Why did she get drunk right in front of me ? Is she trying to make me contact her or what?
Author:  puaninja [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 2:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I moved on, did she ?
This is simply alcohol-related breakup drama. Hardly a good topic to post about.
Author:  stevejabba [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 3:51 pm ]
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She got drunk because you were kind of rubbing it in her face, early after the breakup.

It's not a particularly nice or emotionally sensitive thing to do. Have some empathy man!
Author:  pcorrigan [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 5:00 pm ]
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I would have talked to her to see whats up. I guess now it just depends if your conscious gets to you and you have make a call.
Author:  LeeEvansFan41 [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 5:27 pm ]
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I don't think she's moved on, I tried to stay friends with a girl I used to date once, it took me years to realise she's not worth my time and energy, she was a horrible person but she did say something to me once that caused a lot of subconcious depression and I began drinking heavily and even smoked weed once, luckily for me I have the best friends a guy could ask for, I no longer talk to her and now she's the one chasing me, but she only wants to be my friend now because im no longer the 'loser' she took me for and frankly, that sickens me. I feel much happier without her in my life.

Well, maybe your ex felt she tried her best and it wasn't good enough, that always depresses me anyway, I would advise to talk to her but it's a very touchy subject alright. I could really see her getting angry over all of what happened

It kind of depends on what sort of person she is, if you felt she deserved to have you rub it in her face then maybe that's fair enough but it looks like you might have over-done it. I'd love to rub a new girlfriend in my exs face because I know she's easy jealous
Author:  heat2 [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 9:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I moved on, did she ?
Thanks for the replies guys :)

She was often bitchy and manipulative while we were dating, i never allowed it (that's the main reason of our breakup), and she said some bad and hurtful things when we broke up, i guess she deserves it. And I didn't do it to rub it in her face, it's just how I live. I pick up girls non stop. :)

I was thinking of talking to her, but I don't know.. something stopped me. I don't fear rejection or anything, it just didn't feel right.

What do you think should I break the no contact rule and ask what's up ??
I'm happy to hear all your opinions and suggestions.
Author:  LeeEvansFan41 [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 4:15 pm ]
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I don't ever want to talk to my ex again anyway, all she seems to do is screw with my head and have a laugh about her friends about how miserable she used to make me, she thrives on other peoples misery, and she's also a bit of a pysco, I had to stand up to her in the end because she wouldn't leave me alone and that seems to have worked. Doesn't seem like you like your ex either. I don't really know, but from personal experience i'd probably avoid her if I were you, I don't see anything good coming out of contacting her. The moment I began dating another girl, she came along and tried to break us up, that made me furious but I know she wont try that again, I made it absolutely clear my friends will know about the next time she tries something with me
Author:  heat2 [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 9:40 pm ]
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Although it all ended badly beetwen us, sometimes I miss her, but i fight it off.

I will agree with you and I will avoid her and not contact her, which is a bit hard because we live in a small town, but i will work it out. If she wants me so bad, she will contact me.
Author:  LeeEvansFan41 [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 9:50 pm ]
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Well, if you must talk to her, then do, but otherwise try to avoid it, there might be ways of trying to control an ex somewhere on the internet, Google is you're solution to most of lifes questions :P
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