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Girl dated x2 asks When are you going to make me dinner? ;-)
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Author:  Rich123 [ Sun Jan 13, 2013 9:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl dated x2 asks When are you going to make me dinner? ;-)
Hi Guys,

I've had this a regularly lately, with different girls, after dating a girl a couple of times.

I'm quite into food, and usually chat about it. Like today I was texting this girl about something I'd made and she text me back "When are you going to make me dinner? ;-)". I suppose it's the type of thing I would ask her if she was talking about cooking!

They always have a playful tone when they ask this.

I don't normally do it as I don't want to jump through hoops, etc. Also I haven't slept with her yet.

Basically, I don't want to come across like a beta male ie. she asks me to make her dinner and I say sure, "how do you like you eggs honey ;-)".

On the flip side, it is a way of isolating her AND she obviously feels comfortable enough to come to my house.

What do you reckon guys?

Thanks in advance ;-)
Author:  Tr@veler [ Sun Jan 13, 2013 9:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl dated x2 asks When are you going to make me dinner?
It's a window of opportunity. USE IT!

How to not be a needy little bitch:

Principle: I'll do this if you do that.

"I'll make you dinner if you wear something nice! ;)"

The dinner becomes a reward for her doing something for you. Doesn't have to be exactly ^^ that, but something along those lines.
Author:  Rich123 [ Sun Jan 13, 2013 10:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl dated x2 asks When are you going to make me dinner?
Awesome mate thanks! That's exactly the sort of thing I'm after.
Author:  ItsAlwaysOn [ Mon Jan 14, 2013 8:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl dated x2 asks When are you going to make me dinner?
when you've earned it ;)

is a good one. like traveler said, if you can get something from her in return thats good. tell her shes gonna make it with you (GREAT opportunity to lead and for kino) or tell her to bring a nice bottle of wine or make dessert or something.

basically as long as youre not coming from the frame of 'omg yes id love to make dinner for you because im a little bitch who has to do things to win your affection' you should be fine.
Author:  Don Horneone [ Mon Jan 14, 2013 8:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl dated x2 asks When are you going to make me dinner?
This is all about hoop theory. If you want an example of this consider Butch in Pulp Fiction:

Esmerelda: "What does it feel like to kill a man?"
Butch: "Give me one of those ciggarettes and I'll tell you all about it"

Fabienne: "Time to get up"
Butch: "One kiss and then I'll get up"

But as you said, great way to isolate. Make sure to DHV yourself plenty. The cooking's a good start :)
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