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| Author: | kamikaze1357 [ Sun Jan 13, 2013 3:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Best groups or activities to meet women |
Hi guys, Right now I've moved to another town where I dont know many people. I work at a small company with around 20 people and everyone is around 40/50 years old there (I am in my late twenties..) I think I'm pretty good about talking to women but I don't feel confortable about randomly approaching them at the street or at the bar/club. I feel weird and uncorfortable that way so I prefer to meet them "naturally" (at a friends party or at the work for example) and start escalating from there. My problem is: I dont have friends here, I dont know many people in this town and I do not have interesting girls to game at work, so I want to join a group or activity where I can meet "naturally" lots of women from my age range and also make new friends. I want to do something interesting and meet women during my free time, because right now my life is home(computer)-work-home(computer)-work... and I'm feeling kinda depressed right now.. Can you help me? Do you have some ideas? Cheers |
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Sun Jan 13, 2013 11:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best groups or activities to meet women |
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| Author: | justinwa [ Mon Jan 14, 2013 2:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best groups or activities to meet women |
I'm picking apart this problem myself, although right now I'm a college student so I have a lot of resources to work with that I previously ignored wasn't able to "tap", pun intended. lol Anyways, this idea of being in proximity with girls socially is very important. I mean really, you're only able to approach so many random chics based on your ability, only able to send so many messages to girls online, and you only have a finite amount of time. This is were you have to multi task and you move into social circle game. (Bear with me and this lengthy response, I'm just rolling with some this since it's something I've been trying to work out myself.) Basically, you need reasons to bring people into your life. So here are my suggestions: 1.) Join a church if you want something to do on Sunday and Wensdays: Half of the people will probably be women. You might have to try a few different churches. Also, going to new places helps to develop your nerves to trying new things. 2.) Join a gym with lots of women. Even if you're not too big into fitness, everyone should have an acceptable agenda to meet their minimum exercise goals. In the gym, you will be likely to see some women who are interested in fitness and are sexy! Also, you might be able, not only to cultivate the women, but maybe even be able to make a few friends with the alpha's there, which could be huge for your game. 3.) If you're near a university with hot babes enroll in a class like acting or dance or something you like. One big thing this community, as well as life experience has taught me, is to always keep developing, to keep training, and to keep growing! I couldn't imagine a situation where I let myself stagnate. Always keep pushing! 4.) Troll these forums and try to find a wing. lol Hey, two heads are better than one and if you can develop a team of like-minded people, then this will help you to achieve exponential growth! I've read and heard from various sources that your level of income or level of success with anything is the average of your five closest friends. 5.) Use Facebook or some social networking site like Meetup.com to see what's up. On Facebook you can invite people to events, create groups and invite people to them. Most people are waiting for someone to invite them to stuff. If you can get a group going for something then you may be holding the keys to a potentially valuable vehicle. Also, don't be afraid of meeting and befriending dudes. Often they are easier to make friends with and believe it or not you can adapt some pua techniques to work on them with. Lead the men and the women will follow! 6.) Try a new routine and get in the habit of rotating routines. Find a group of places you can frequent on a daily or weekly basis to the point where you become a regular and you can become familiar with the other regulars, employees, and the new employees that replace the existing ones. For instance, instead of going to the subway that has average people, I look for one with girls working there. If their staff sucks, then I'll try somewhere else like Canes near campus--Goldmine! And you get the gist of this. I hope this was helpful! Best of luck. --Justin |
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| Author: | Malcolm Thomas [ Mon Jan 14, 2013 3:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best groups or activities to meet women |
Set dates in your calendar so you will HAVE to go to pick up women. Go to malls, coffee shops, the gym. Just start being a more social person and you will find yourself naturally interacting with more attractive women. |
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| Author: | wingintyme [ Mon Jan 14, 2013 5:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best groups or activities to meet women |
It sounds like what you need is a good wing man. Or if not a wing man per se, a buddy to get out and hang with. I've been there a few times over the years. You might start by posting ads on your local craigslist under strictly plutonic and/or activities or even rants and raves. About 4 years ago I was real down and did it and got 2 real good hits over about a 2 month period. I'm friends with them today but built a lot of social circles through them. Another thing you can try is go out alone and don't worry too much about approaching females. Find other guys like you who are by themselves. You can usually open about girls , or what you are interested in. I meet a lot of guys talking sports b/c I like it and know a lot about it and know where sports fans hang out. |
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