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| Author: | The Zohan [ Sat Jan 12, 2013 9:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | College help - how do I approach this situation? |
Today was move-in day for many schools, as well as mine. I missed orientation so she was assigned to show me where to register for classes (couldn't register after all, I came too late and the people left) I have to register on Monday. We talked while she was showing me where to go. She's from the same place i came from and she said the area is "slow" meaning there's not much to do off campus. She's a Junior, I'm a Sophmore, she's been here since her freshman year and I'm new. She gave me her name but i didn't push for a number because my mom was walking with us, it could have gottwn awkward. I'm planning on adding her on Facebook, starting a convo on there, them pushing for the number. I know that i need to build attraction first. How would you guys go about getting her number, the fb convo, etc. if you were in this situation? She's not too into the campus parties, and I'm not looking for a relationship. Only FWB status. |
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| Author: | Narrator [ Sat Jan 12, 2013 10:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: College help - how do I approach this situation? |
I say look for her on campus then strike up a conversation. Just project confidence, give false time constraint (I got go meet my buddies), talk for a minute or two, body rock like you are about to hit it, then ask her casually. If you don't see her fb her and ask if she wants to meet, study, etc. |
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| Author: | The Zohan [ Sat Jan 12, 2013 10:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: College help - how do I approach this situation? |
Quote: I say look for her on campus then strike up a conversation. Just project confidence, give false time constraint (I got go meet my buddies), talk for a minute or two, body rock like you are about to hit it, then ask her casually. If you don't see her fb her and ask if she wants to meet, study, etc.
So you're saying just take a shot in the dark and try for a meet up without any real attraction building conversation?
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sat Jan 12, 2013 11:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: College help - how do I approach this situation? |
You are going to have to make your intentions clear early on so you don't fall into the friend zone. But I would suggest strongly to meet up with her in person or just go to her room and chat (this is a dorm right?, it is normal if you go and knock to meet new friends). While there you can ask what is there to for fun around here and what does she do, blah blah blah, etc. Get in there buddy! Fuck facebook game. People are sooooo smooth and suave behind a screen and once you get there in person they are fish out of water. Get my drift? |
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| Author: | The Zohan [ Sun Jan 13, 2013 12:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: College help - how do I approach this situation? |
Quote: You are going to have to make your intentions clear early on so you don't fall into the friend zone. But I would suggest strongly to meet up with her in person or just go to her room and chat (this is a dorm right?, it is normal if you go and knock to meet new friends). While there you can ask what is there to for fun around here and what does she do, blah blah blah, etc. Get in there buddy! Fuck facebook game. People are sooooo smooth and suave behind a screen and once you get there in person they are fish out of water. Get my drift?
I got you 100%. Only problem is that all I know is that she has an apartment on or near campus amd her name. The campus is huge so I doubt I'll just see her chilling around campus. That's the only reason I even considered facebook. More than anything, my thoughts are that she might not agree to a meetup without an attraction building conversation, only because she starts out with higher value in her mind since she'sa junior, I'm new here , and she's staying in an apartment.
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sun Jan 13, 2013 12:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: College help - how do I approach this situation? |
Quote: Quote: You are going to have to make your intentions clear early on so you don't fall into the friend zone. But I would suggest strongly to meet up with her in person or just go to her room and chat (this is a dorm right?, it is normal if you go and knock to meet new friends). While there you can ask what is there to for fun around here and what does she do, blah blah blah, etc. Get in there buddy! Fuck facebook game. People are sooooo smooth and suave behind a screen and once you get there in person they are fish out of water. Get my drift?
I got you 100%. Only problem is that all I know is that she has an apartment on or near campus amd her name. The campus is huge so I doubt I'll just see her chilling around campus. That's the only reason I even considered facebook. More than anything, my thoughts are that she might not agree to a meetup without an attraction building conversation, only because she starts out with higher value in her mind since she'sa junior, I'm new here , and she's staying in an apartment.If the campus is that big then it is fine to use facebook. But don't become a virtual buddy and get that phone number! |
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| Author: | The Zohan [ Sun Jan 13, 2013 12:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: College help - how do I approach this situation? |
Quote: Quote: Quote: You are going to have to make your intentions clear early on so you don't fall into the friend zone. But I would suggest strongly to meet up with her in person or just go to her room and chat (this is a dorm right?, it is normal if you go and knock to meet new friends). While there you can ask what is there to for fun around here and what does she do, blah blah blah, etc. Get in there buddy! Fuck facebook game. People are sooooo smooth and suave behind a screen and once you get there in person they are fish out of water. Get my drift?
I got you 100%. Only problem is that all I know is that she has an apartment on or near campus amd her name. The campus is huge so I doubt I'll just see her chilling around campus. That's the only reason I even considered facebook. More than anything, my thoughts are that she might not agree to a meetup without an attraction building conversation, only because she starts out with higher value in her mind since she'sa junior, I'm new here , and she's staying in an apartment.If the campus is that big then it is fine to use facebook. But don't become a virtual buddy and get that phone number! Once I figure out how I'm gonna go about this, I'll take action and keep you guys posted with results. Thanks a lot so far bro. |
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