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| Author: | newporthundreds [ Fri Jan 11, 2013 8:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help me get my baby back.. |
6 month relationship ended because I acted clingy and insecure the whole time, always jealous when her phone went off, mad AFC.. Anyways, I found this site but too late to stop the breakup. She made it clear she never wants to see me again, dont bother her, etc. I took the advice on here and told her Im ok with the breakup, good luck etc. Started no contact. Hasnt been a week and shes texting me about "whos gonna take care of the cat" when I told her when she was leaving to take the cat if she wants it or Im just gonna get rid of her. What does this mean? Do I just blow her off for a while longer? I really want her back. What to do at this point? |
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| Author: | peiper [ Fri Jan 11, 2013 11:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me get my baby back.. |
you'll take care of the cat. stop talking to her until she initiates contact, minimum of 3 weeks tho. Spend this time reconfiguring yourself... fix your closet, join the gym, start doing fun shit If you have a fb account, then go out with friends and some girls, and make sure to get some pics with you and the girls. Read some solid books on PUA, and sex. Also, hardest part... get over her. you're going to continue to act like an AFC if your still obsessed with her. read "ex squared system" as your first book. its the perfect book for your situation, and you can probs find for free online... Good luck |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Sat Jan 12, 2013 6:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me get my baby back.. |
Quote: 6 month relationship ended because I acted clingy and insecure the whole time, always jealous when her phone went off, mad AFC.. Anyways, I found this site but too late to stop the breakup. She made it clear she never wants to see me again, dont bother her, etc. I took the advice on here and told her Im ok with the breakup, good luck etc. Started no contact. Hasnt been a week and shes texting me about "whos gonna take care of the cat" when I told her when she was leaving to take the cat if she wants it or Im just gonna get rid of her. What does this mean? Do I just blow her off for a while longer? I really want her back. What to do at this point?
First off this doesn't belong in the PUA lounge it is a beginner question, there is no reason you should post this in any other section outside of the question section. (And no your situation isn't special or different) You need to stop talking to her for 3-4 months and work on your self-confidence and self-esteem. Your behavior will not change without you building up your self-confidence, your relationship with her will only hurt your self-confidence. Not seeing her for an extended period of time will allow your emotions for her to dwindle some. You can not be good in a relationship with her if you are this insecure, your lack of self-confidence will create more problems in the future, you'll just fuck it up all over again. I won't help you get her back for the simple reason being it's a waste of your time, your just going to fuck it up again. The other poster is right, get over her, that is the only way you can get her back and actually have a happy health relationship with her. Your lack of self-confidence will continue to sabotage relationships and make you unhappy. Work on yourself then worry about getting back into a relationship with her. Peace and Love, Vic |
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