Hello PUA Community!
I am very excited to finally have joined a PUA forum!
After many years of "Beta-ness" and walking around bars and clubs having a miserable time looking at 10 percent of the guys getting with 90 percent of the women, I decided I need to change.
I have started to learn to dance. Not really a specific "genre" but club dancing that is done in bars and clubs.
Dancing has given me ALOT of confidence and I am now starting to attract more women. I dont only dance for the girls, I also LOVE music [Im half hispanic
] and genuinely love to get down.However, I have also noticed the importance of mastering the " Game." I feel that being a good dancer combined with awesome game will make me unstoppable.
This brings me to my first question. I was wondering how to deal with tough resistance from a rude and bitter woman in a group of girls.
I went up to a group of 10 girls by myself because my friend was too nervous (yea I know im trying to get him to loosen up). I gave them my phone and told them to press play. Before playing the song I instructed them to rate my "Strut" on a scale of 1-10. She pressed play on my phone and "Staying Alive" came on. I pre-selected that song to come on. Once it came on I "strutted across the room so they could all see and then "rate" my strut.
Alot of the girls loved it and were giggling and interested. However, the leader of their group was the hottest girl and she was trying to get me to fold under her pressure. She made sarcastic remarks about my body and told me sarcastically that I should be a model. The problem is, I recently decided I want to go to medical school and last semester I needed to get straight As and stopped working out. I gained like 8 to 10 pounds. I need to work on my appearance. I used to be in shape from doing Krav Maga, BJJ, and Boxing but this is my last year of college and i NEED straight As to make my GPA more competitive. In all honestly I might not be able to workout until May.
So the main reason I posted this is to ask: How do you deal with a sexy, bitter, and resistive women who is obviously trying to get me to fold. She didnt want me anywhere near her friends. I didnt know exactly how to respond so I was a little too rude back to her and she was shocked (I rather be too rude than be a bitch and back off - but I know neither is good).
My philosophy is that everything is a spectrum. and that too much on either side is bad. I need to know how to counter these women because she put me on the spot.
She was essentially calling me fat and unattractive in front of her friends.
I would appreciate any help. Thanks playas!