PUA Forum :: How to be Alpha/exciting/The prize?

I'm starting to realize my issues in game - as I do I'm getting better. (1) I have the WRONG mindset. I'm afraid of losing the girl, so my game is coming from a place of neediness. (2) Also, I'm WAY too easy, if a girl likes me I go all in, don't play hard to get or tease her.

(3) And I fall for all of her Test's she throws my way, like I always give in. There's a guy on here in the online game section who talked to a girl and said this, "You feel that in your stomach? Those are butterflies
I bet you don't feel that often, it's ok most girls don't" his name is Darth Vader. I'm sure you guys know what attitude I'm trying to convey. He also told a girl, thanks for helping me win a bet, HER: Really? What bet? HIM: (handles her test) I have to build trust before I tell you, I'm not that easy". That's how I wanna' be!

Like that's Alpha, he kept the girl intereted. Usually what I do is open direct, build comfort, throw in humor and after 20 msg's I get the number. And I never build commonalities.

What can I do to fix these 3 issues, to be Alpha and not needy and not fall for her tests.

Author:	Pinkfloyd123 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 11:06 pm ]
Post subject:	How to be Alpha/exciting/The prize?
I'm starting to realize my issues in game - as I do I'm getting better. (1) I have the WRONG mindset. I'm afraid of losing the girl, so my game is coming from a place of neediness. (2) Also, I'm WAY too easy, if a girl likes me I go all in, don't play hard to get or tease her. (3) And I fall for all of her Test's she throws my way, like I always give in. There's a guy on here in the online game section who talked to a girl and said this, "You feel that in your stomach? Those are butterflies I bet you don't feel that often, it's ok most girls don't" his name is Darth Vader. I'm sure you guys know what attitude I'm trying to convey. He also told a girl, thanks for helping me win a bet, HER: Really? What bet? HIM: (handles her test) I have to build trust before I tell you, I'm not that easy". That's how I wanna' be! Like that's Alpha, he kept the girl intereted. Usually what I do is open direct, build comfort, throw in humor and after 20 msg's I get the number. And I never build commonalities. What can I do to fix these 3 issues, to be Alpha and not needy and not fall for her tests.

Author:	dark one [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 11:21 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How to be Alpha/exciting/The prize?
Your comming from a sellers mind set, you need to become the buy, most of this comes from inner game, creating an attractive life style...be passionate about life, your career and your hobbies, if you hate your career change it, if you have no hobbies get some, if u hate life start loving it! You also need to not be out come dependent...every set is a good set even if you get blown out! so what? you learn something new each time you approach and usually you learn more when you get blown out of set. You also have to realize that looks are just looks...a girls looks mean nothing, she might be boring, stupid, be low value in every other way. You need to get in the mind set that you are the one with higher value then her, you are the one with the attractive life style, you are the prize not her...she good looking? whooped shit! lol that's great ask her what else she can offer as a human?

Author:	anonymous man [ Thu Jan 10, 2013 1:00 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How to be Alpha/exciting/The prize?
Quote: I'm starting to realize my issues in game - as I do I'm getting better. (1) I have the WRONG mindset. I'm afraid of losing the girl, so my game is coming from a place of neediness. (2) Also, I'm WAY too easy, if a girl likes me I go all in, don't play hard to get or tease her. (3) And I fall for all of her Test's she throws my way, like I always give in. There's a guy on here in the online game section who talked to a girl and said this, "You feel that in your stomach? Those are butterflies I bet you don't feel that often, it's ok most girls don't" his name is Darth Vader. I'm sure you guys know what attitude I'm trying to convey. He also told a girl, thanks for helping me win a bet, HER: Really? What bet? HIM: (handles her test) I have to build trust before I tell you, I'm not that easy". That's how I wanna' be! Like that's Alpha, he kept the girl intereted. Usually what I do is open direct, build comfort, throw in humor and after 20 msg's I get the number. And I never build commonalities. What can I do to fix these 3 issues, to be Alpha and not needy and not fall for her tests. Always tease her bro!!

Author:	Pickwick [ Thu Jan 10, 2013 5:04 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How to be Alpha/exciting/The prize?
Dark one gave you good advice. You have to stop worrying about women and worry about making yourself a better man. That's what life is mstly about- improving and being happy. Then you will value your time, which women will see and value it as well. In terms of the game your homie used, it will come if you want it to. Work on giving yourself value first. That will give you an opportunity to choose how to spit your game, which you'll adopt from mimicking others using that frame.

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