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| Author: | yomon [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 7:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | who should pay for motel? |
I see lots of recommendation here that guys should not pay for the chick's drink. However, what is the advice regarding who should pay for motel room? I am seeing this HB casually about once a week. Going to my place or hers is not an option. She always expect me to pay for the room. It gets expensive at 50$ a pop (especially if I see several HBs). Should I ask her to share the cost? I asked, and she does not want to pay, even though it is always her who wants to see me. She has a good job, and money should not be tight. Thanks. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 7:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: who should pay for motel? |
Yes, of course. You have to start making a big deal about it so she knows that you won't be a pushover about it. Make up an excuse or something as to why you are broke and she needs to start paying. |
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| Author: | yomon [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 7:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: who should pay for motel? |
Thanks PUA ninja. She knows I am not broke, so I can't use it as an excuse. It is just a principle matter. Perhaps I should set up something like Project Hollywood, and share the cost with others PUA in Montreal. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 7:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: who should pay for motel? |
If you have tons and tons of money, then you shouldn't need to be renting out motel rooms for sex. And almost anyone can come up with an excuse to tell others they are broke. Tell her you lost money in the stock market and need to be smart with your money right now and can't afford to blow it on motel rooms. |
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| Author: | dark one [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 7:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: who should pay for motel? |
If you pay for everything you become the provider and she stops wanting sex and starts wanting a relationship...unless that's what you want? but in any case I would tell her she needs to start footing the bill from time to time, if she says no then say "Ok, guess we won't be getting a hotel next time then". |
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| Author: | GKS [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 8:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: who should pay for motel? |
Be up front with her. Just say, since now we're doing it in regular basic, we should take turn paying for the hotel. |
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| Author: | yomon [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 8:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: who should pay for motel? |
That is! From now on, it is 50-50. If HB is not happy, I would just flush her, which I just did. I did the same thing with another HB a few weeks ago who did not want to pay her share of the dinner. Guess what, she came back, and now she is pay for her share of everything, although reluctantly. Oh well, it is either that or no good sex with me  It is amazing to see those reactions when I play hard ball with them.
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