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Girls name: Stacy
How We Met: was friends with her brother growing Up. She had a crush last time I seen him or her four years ago. He passed away last year. See her for the first time again December 1

Intimate Relations:
Hooked up (sex) for a week straight starting December 1.

December 7, she grew distant becoming flaky This is the starting points of troubles

December 13 told me she did not want a relationship until she's done with school in three months. She told you she didn't want a relationship as in boyfriend/girlfriend at a certain time because of other obligations in life

December 14 apologize for the drunk message
She came up that night started a fight then left.
Clearly feeling guilty about her bad behavior towards you

No contact until she messaged me on the 19th had a discussion about kids lightheartedly (think she thought she was pregnant. Not that I know) Talking about kids, even in a playful mannor, is always a sing of her being interested in more then just a temporary flirt

on the 20th She came up on her girlfriend (.) no sex stayed the night got BJ.
No contact between 22 and Christmas 25 when I texted her

did not see her until 27th she came up acted paranoid about other girls. Someone may have suggested something behind my back (. She was the only girl I was seeing), during sex after she got hers She pushed me away and told me was thinking too much about me and other girls Have you been acting cold towards her for her behavior earlier? (fully understandable if so)

29th, she drunk text me she was drinking alone in her room when she was texting me.
Desperate call for attention
Next day 30th, she didn't reply to my text asking how she was doing.
Trying to do a freezeout on you
21st*she was coming up for the New Year's party. She ended up Dding her sister and not seeing me.

No contact until January 2 , when she called to ask if she left something and said she would come up and pick it up someday soon. Trying to meet you without coming of as needy or desperate

Next day 23rd, I text her to see if she wanted to grab a drink. She came up acted a little distant eye contact wasn't all the way there, but did not resist my keno. Told me she watched a movie with the but she sat on the other side of the room and he has been texting her nonstop and she was mad that he thought they were dating so she was arguing with him via text message The entire time she was up here with me, she acted annoyed and irritated with me although she was reactive to keno. She slept next to me, nothing happened did not push the keno , she seemed irritated. Showing you that she is pursued by other men

Next day she left promptly with no normal breakfast and no normal kiss.
Might be angry with you for not getting the outcome (you crumbling) she wanted
no contact until I text her December 5 I invited her back and also said I could come out there and I received no reply, and have had no contact with her sense and now it's the 9th.

p.s next time a girl comes over to your house to hang out and becomes a major bitch to you, tell her to leave and come back when she has a better attitude, or don't come back at all...those are her options. You let a women come into your house, treat you with little or no respect, and then sleep next to you without getting laid and she isn't even your gf? how can you expect her to consider you to be of high value? or respect you when you allow her to treat you this way.

When she does contact you I would be polite but tell her your disappointed she ignored you texts, its shows her lack of respect for you, and you don't want someone in your life who treats you this way...she will respect you a lot more then if you welcome her back with open arms!

Talking about kids, even in a playful mannor, is always a sing of her being interested in more then just a temporary flirt

Then she is interested in something more? This is what I want more

i think so, yes
Have you been acting cold towards her for her behavior earlier? (fully understandable if so)

No

Desperate call for attention

more than happy to get her attention
you must figure out why she is desperate for it. She might be broken in alot of ways from earlier relationships or friendships
Trying to do a freezeout on you

Why freeze me out when she's calling for attention???
Because she didn't get it and is trying new tactics
Trying to meet you without coming of as needy or desperate

This is good
Might be, but might also be manipulative
Showing you that she is pursued by other men

Ok understandable

Might be angry with you for not getting the outcome (you crumbling) she wanted

What outcome did she want??? She was cold and distant with me.....
She wanted you to chase and invest without her having to do it aswell

Don't buy into her attempt of playing mindgames and making you a doormat. Game other girls and have fun, play it cool and see how it evolves.

Yes i Agree what should be my course of action at this point ??????

Author:	manzilla911 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 7:47 am ]
Post subject:	No Reply, Should I Contact Again
Girls name: Stacy How We Met: was friends with her brother growing Up. She had a crush last time I seen him or her four years ago. He passed away last year. See her for the first time again December 1 Intimate Relations: Hooked up (sex) for a week straight starting December 1. December 7, she grew distant becoming flaky December 13 told me she did not want a relationship until she's done with school in three months. December 14 apologize for the drunk message She came up that night started a fight then left. No contact until she messaged me on the 19th had a discussion about kids lightheartedly (think she thought she was pregnant. Not that I know) on the 20th She came up on her girlfriend (.) no sex stayed the night got BJ. No contact between 22 and Christmas 25 when I texted her did not see her until 27th she came up acted paranoid about other girls. Someone may have suggested something behind my back (. She was the only girl I was seeing), during sex after she got hers She pushed me away and told me was thinking too much about me and other girls 29th, she drunk text me she was drinking alone in her room when she was texting me. Next day 30th, she didn't reply to my text asking how she was doing. 21st*she was coming up for the New Year's party. She ended up Dding her sister and not seeing me. No contact until January 2 , when she called to ask if she left something and said she would come up and pick it up someday soon. Next day 23rd, I text her to see if she wanted to grab a drink. She came up acted a little distant eye contact wasn't all the way there, but did not resist my keno. Told me she watched a movie with the but she sat on the other side of the room and he has been texting her nonstop and she was mad that he thought they were dating so she was arguing with him via text message The entire time she was up here with me, she acted annoyed and irritated with me although she was reactive to keno. She slept next to me, nothing happened did not push the keno , she seemed irritated. Next day she left promptly with no normal breakfast and no normal kiss. no contact until I text her December 5 I invited her back and also said I could come out there and I received no reply, and have had no contact with her sense and now it's the 9th. I do not know at this point what I should do? . I do not know if I should contact her , our wait until she contacts me. I kind no one ask her what is going on , but I also do not want to push her away. I know there's a lot of information here, but I wanted to present everything as I do not know necessarily how to analyze information at this point without incorporating my own negative assumptions. Thank you for putting up with my ignorance and for contributing any help that you can.

Author:	dark one [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 8:00 am ]
Post subject:	Re: No Reply, Should I Contact Again
My head hurt from reading all this lol So basically you got with a girl, she was attracted to you, now shes not as attracted to you, and you are butt her about it? Without sounding harsh get over it...you have oneitis and although it sucks! you need to learn that this will happen from time to time....the only way to avoid this is to have abundance in your life. There will always be one or two girls in your life which you care for more than the others but you get better at dealing with your emotions and care less with more experience. Cut contact and let her come to you. You have done all you can do, anything more comes off as needy and if she wants you bad enough she will contact you...believe me! In the mean time work on your self, meet other women, and move on. Does it suck? of course but learn from it and become a better person.

Author:	RollTheDice [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 8:03 am ]
Post subject:	Re: No Reply, Should I Contact Again
Quote: Girls name: Stacy How We Met: was friends with her brother growing Up. She had a crush last time I seen him or her four years ago. He passed away last year. See her for the first time again December 1 Intimate Relations: Hooked up (sex) for a week straight starting December 1. December 7, she grew distant becoming flaky This is the starting points of troubles December 13 told me she did not want a relationship until she's done with school in three months. She told you she didn't want a relationship as in boyfriend/girlfriend at a certain time because of other obligations in life December 14 apologize for the drunk message She came up that night started a fight then left. Clearly feeling guilty about her bad behavior towards you No contact until she messaged me on the 19th had a discussion about kids lightheartedly (think she thought she was pregnant. Not that I know) Talking about kids, even in a playful mannor, is always a sing of her being interested in more then just a temporary flirt on the 20th She came up on her girlfriend (.) no sex stayed the night got BJ. No contact between 22 and Christmas 25 when I texted her did not see her until 27th she came up acted paranoid about other girls. Someone may have suggested something behind my back (. She was the only girl I was seeing), during sex after she got hers She pushed me away and told me was thinking too much about me and other girls Have you been acting cold towards her for her behavior earlier? (fully understandable if so) 29th, she drunk text me she was drinking alone in her room when she was texting me. Desperate call for attention Next day 30th, she didn't reply to my text asking how she was doing. Trying to do a freezeout on you 21st*she was coming up for the New Year's party. She ended up Dding her sister and not seeing me. No contact until January 2 , when she called to ask if she left something and said she would come up and pick it up someday soon. Trying to meet you without coming of as needy or desperate Next day 23rd, I text her to see if she wanted to grab a drink. She came up acted a little distant eye contact wasn't all the way there, but did not resist my keno. Told me she watched a movie with the but she sat on the other side of the room and he has been texting her nonstop and she was mad that he thought they were dating so she was arguing with him via text message The entire time she was up here with me, she acted annoyed and irritated with me although she was reactive to keno. She slept next to me, nothing happened did not push the keno , she seemed irritated. Showing you that she is pursued by other men Next day she left promptly with no normal breakfast and no normal kiss. Might be angry with you for not getting the outcome (you crumbling) she wanted no contact until I text her December 5 I invited her back and also said I could come out there and I received no reply, and have had no contact with her sense and now it's the 9th. Don't buy into her attempt of playing mindgames and making you a doormat. Game other girls and have fun, play it cool and see how it evolves.

Author:	dark one [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 8:08 am ]
Post subject:	Re: No Reply, Should I Contact Again
p.s next time a girl comes over to your house to hang out and becomes a major bitch to you, tell her to leave and come back when she has a better attitude, or don't come back at all...those are her options. You let a women come into your house, treat you with little or no respect, and then sleep next to you without getting laid and she isn't even your gf? how can you expect her to consider you to be of high value? or respect you when you allow her to treat you this way. When she does contact you I would be polite but tell her your disappointed she ignored you texts, its shows her lack of respect for you, and you don't want someone in your life who treats you this way...she will respect you a lot more then if you welcome her back with open arms!

Author:	manzilla911 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 9:01 am ]
Post subject:	Re: No Reply, Should I Contact Again
Talking about kids, even in a playful mannor, is always a sing of her being interested in more then just a temporary flirt Then she is interested in something more? This is what I want more Have you been acting cold towards her for her behavior earlier? (fully understandable if so) No Desperate call for attention more than happy to get her attention Trying to do a freezeout on you Why freeze me out when she's calling for attention??? Trying to meet you without coming of as needy or desperate This is good Showing you that she is pursued by other men Ok understandable Might be angry with you for not getting the outcome (you crumbling) she wanted What outcome did she want??? She was cold and distant with me..... Don't buy into her attempt of playing mindgames and making you a doormat. Game other girls and have fun, play it cool and see how it evolves. does this mean it's over because she didn't get what she wants? , as she has not replied since my text on Sunday? Yes i Agree what should be my course of action at this point ??????

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Author:	manzilla911 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 9:06 am ]
Post subject:	Re: No Reply, Should I Contact Again
Quote: p.s next time a girl comes over to your house to hang out and becomes a major bitch to you, tell her to leave and come back when she has a better attitude, or don't come back at all...those are her options. You let a women come into your house, treat you with little or no respect, and then sleep next to you without getting laid and she isn't even your gf? how can you expect her to consider you to be of high value? or respect you when you allow her to treat you this way. When she does contact you I would be polite but tell her your disappointed she ignored you texts, its shows her lack of respect for you, and you don't want someone in your life who treats you this way...she will respect you a lot more then if you welcome her back with open arms! so you think I should continue not to contact her until she contact me?

Author:	RollTheDice [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 9:11 am ]
Post subject:	Re: No Reply, Should I Contact Again
Quote: Talking about kids, even in a playful mannor, is always a sing of her being interested in more then just a temporary flirt Then she is interested in something more? This is what I want more i think so, yes Have you been acting cold towards her for her behavior earlier? (fully understandable if so) No Desperate call for attention more than happy to get her attention you must figure out why she is desperate for it. She might be broken in alot of ways from earlier relationships or friendships Trying to do a freezeout on you Why freeze me out when she's calling for attention??? Because she didn't get it and is trying new tactics Trying to meet you without coming of as needy or desperate This is good Might be, but might also be manipulative Showing you that she is pursued by other men Ok understandable Might be angry with you for not getting the outcome (you crumbling) she wanted What outcome did she want??? She was cold and distant with me..... She wanted you to chase and invest without her having to do it aswell Don't buy into her attempt of playing mindgames and making you a doormat. Game other girls and have fun, play it cool and see how it evolves. Yes i Agree what should be my course of action at this point ?????? Sit back and enjoy the ride, game other girls. Or you will develope a form of oneitis, and get stuck in a situation that might not be good for you

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