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Author:  dauser12 [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 9:44 pm ]
Post subject:  The dynamics of saying no to a girl with a boyfriend
Does turning down a HB at the very last minute in the bed put you in her good books or weak books?
This HB is in a 3yr long relationship so i felt it was wrong because thats the only guy shes been with.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 11:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The dynamics of saying no to a girl with a boyfriend
what point are you trying to prove? Are you going to somehow sleep with her later on in life? You can't control the outcome. Just worry about yourself.
Author:  dauser12 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 4:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The dynamics of saying no to a girl with a boyfriend
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what point are you trying to prove? Are you going to somehow sleep with her later on in life? You can't control the outcome. Just worry about yourself.
I work with this girl and so see her regularly, im just curious what a girl would think of a man who turned her down last minute, would she think of him as weak or be more attracted by his actions?
Author:  Chief [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 6:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The dynamics of saying no to a girl with a boyfriend
Weak books. And some more books, none of them good.

Your best option was to have never gone down that path if you didn't plan on following through. Quit half-assing things - either do or do not.
Author:  GKS [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 7:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The dynamics of saying no to a girl with a boyfriend
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Does turning down a HB at the very last minute in the bed put you in her good books or weak books?
This HB is in a 3yr long relationship so i felt it was wrong because thats the only guy shes been with.
This is, by far, the stupidest thing I have ever heard. It only shows that you're indecisive, can't resist temptation, have no control over your urge, have no clue what you want in life and have no balls to push through or can't perform when the time comes. Now if you turn her down from the very first time she starts flirting with you, that's an alpha male with lot of control and confidence who knows exactly what he wants and what we would not tolerate.

If you're too weak to resist the desire, then at least push through and see it till the end. At least that way you're still half a man.
Author:  dauser12 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 7:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The dynamics of saying no to a girl with a boyfriend
wow gks "indecisive, can't resist temptation, have no control over your urge, have no clue what you want in life and have no balls to push through" is a spot on description of myself SPAM.

But the point is i hadn't even thought about it until the taxi ride, which was very long
Author:  GKS [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 8:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The dynamics of saying no to a girl with a boyfriend
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wow gks "indecisive, can't resist temptation, have no control over your urge, have no clue what you want in life and have no balls to push through" is a spot on description of myself SPAM.

But the point is i hadn't even thought about it until the taxi ride, which was very long
I understand. I've been there myself too. But you gotta teach yourself how to make decisions in life. And once you do, stick with it. Don't be half ass because you lose both ways and will always be wondering what if.

A perfect example for this is rollercoaster. You decide whether you can take the ride or not. But if you already waited 2 hours in the line, got on it then you might as well just grow some ball and enjoy it instead of cry and throw a fit to get off it halfway. How do you think you would appear in front of everyone there?

Wise men pick their wining battles, only idiots pick every fight they can get.
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