| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| success of date? https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=154451 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | gazelle [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 6:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | success of date? |
just been on coffee date with a girl from work. lasted about 90 mins and had comfortable fun conversation throughout (had her crying with laughter at one point). the only problem was there wasn't much opportunity for kino without it being awkward. walked her back to her car and said see you soon(no hug/kiss). just finding it difficult to judge how well it went although i may be over thinking things. would love some feedback? |
|
| Author: | Versalis [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 7:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: success of date? |
Quote: wasn't much opportunity for kino without it being awkward. You need to start thinking about how to manage these sorts of dates so it won't be awkward.Platonic dates are not very good, especially when they're an hour and a half long. Does this girl at least know you're interested in her sexually? |
|
| Author: | HardToKill [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 7:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: success of date? |
You need to kiss her by the second date or you, mister, are well and truly in the friendzone. |
|
| Author: | gazelle [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 7:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: success of date? |
Quote: Quote: wasn't much opportunity for kino without it being awkward. You need to start thinking about how to manage these sorts of dates so it won't be awkward.Platonic dates are not very good, especially when they're an hour and a half long. Does this girl at least know you're interested in her sexually? |
|
| Author: | Versalis [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 7:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: success of date? |
Dude, 2/3 of the girls I date are "shy". I'm not in to club rats. ALL of them want to be touched and kissed - and quick. First date preferred, second date max. You go longer than that, and your odds of hooking up with this girl fall off a lot. |
|
| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 7:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: success of date? |
You don't have to escalate on a first date, especially if the girl is shy. Some girls have hard and fast rules about no kissing/hooking up on the first date. So you have to be patient. Come the second date you want to try to make it a little more fun and upbeat and make it so that you have more opportunities to do kino. |
|
| Author: | Versalis [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 8:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: success of date? |
Hooking up, yes. But kissing? I don't think I've encountered this. |
|
| Author: | gazelle [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 8:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: success of date? |
Quote: Hooking up, yes. But kissing? I don't think I've encountered this.
don't quite understand your point? also i'm kinda looking at as potential girlfriend material not just a hook up
|
|
| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 8:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: success of date? |
Some girls don't kiss, or it's only a harmless peck on the cheek. Either way, it doesn't mean much in the long run. Make up for lost ground on the second date. |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|