And what comes to LTR, you just gotta start meeting girls. Shocking, isnt it
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| Author: | clickngo [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 3:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Past relationship shaped me, now not wanting LTR. Help! |
First off, last year was the first time I had a date,went out with girls, I broke away from my AFC days, got into PUA, lost all my AA and went for what I wanted, no one held me back. Last year I got into a relationship that lasted about two months, very short but I learned so much from it. This girl had almost everything in common with me, and we did a few things together in the short time. It was fun, but just not what I enjoyed. I already do my favorite things with my male friends, and going out with a girl to do fun things can end up being sh** tested in the end. It wasn't what I was looking forward, I grew up with the mind set from family, I should marry a girl that I can enjoy being around, and have fun. This girl was nice to be around and fun, but I did not enjoy it, it was the same as other men but just sexual tension. I read a few books, and a bunch of internet advice, this stuff really does work, because in my AFC days I would just interview them and never got anywhere lol so sad. I am much better with conversations but don't know much about escalate to sexual convo's, I do kino and that helps some. I come off as "a friend" which I do not want. I pretty much only want a woman around a few times a week, and sex, not having her in the house 24/7 or seeing her so much. What's wrong with me? |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 4:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Past relationship shaped me, now not wanting LTR. Help! |
A relationship isn't your life. So your reasons aren't bad at all. A few times a week is plenty. Yes, you can still go out without her, no need to suffocate each other. |
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| Author: | DirtyDreams [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 9:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Past relationship shaped me, now not wanting LTR. Help! |
I get your problem. You can talk to girls like nothing, still you get the feeling "There is nothing sexual going on". To you, the solution is easier than you think. There is no magic to create sexual tension: kino + language. Now you must be wondering does that motherfucker think Im this stupid so lets move on: Kino and language should go hand to hand. Now lets think what lets you grab her ass and do things without her screaming what a pervert: 1) You are mix of Brad Pitt & Johnny Depp 2) You are using language to allow yourself to do this kind of things without her thinking its inapproriate When you tell your story (which in this wont the one you fighting against three fellows, blood flowing around), use adjectives that help you to your goal. 1) I was camping with my friends yesterday, that was exciting. 2) The other day back I went camping with group of my best friends, that went extremely exciting as we saw the bear walking around pumping some brown carbage from his rear. Lol, jsut kidding. Anyway, using adjectives more than you should also makes your story longer, but the thing is women are really emotional, they love it when you make them go through a emotional rollercoaster. The thing still is you dont have to punch her and then say you love her. You can use stories to make her go through any emotion, I bet even you have felt sad, happy, laughing, angry during reading book or watching movie. You can easily train your story telling quite a bit by improvisation, just put timer first for 1 minute, dont plan your story, just start telling as fast as you (little faster than you speak normally) can so that your imagination has to work faster than you speak. You will find out that using more adjectives even give you more time, when you get better, you will notice that your mind will go sentences ahead your speech. That will give you enormous benefit, you can tell your stories and keep adding more and more adjectives there, make her really feel what you want her to feel. EDIT: The story can start of even from something like: "The pirate was falling down from the mast, luckily there where firemen waiting for him on deck. Captain Migusavaki was laughing his ass off as the monkey stuck banana to fallen pirates ass..." There are no restricts, its just making your imagination fly. Migusavaki could even end up as USA President if thats what comes to mind. Make it a movie in your mind. When you talking to girls, dont just remember the words, see it as a movie in your mind, DESCRIBE WHAT YOU SEE. This is just extra here, you can either say: 1) You like to stare in my eyes and listen like theres no one else around. 2) You know, have you ever met someone (point self), looking at his eyes, listening to him as everything else happening around just seems to fade away, just like there was just two of you (do some motion like you and me), you feel like you could listen to him for hours because his voice sounds so gentle..... |
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| Author: | DirtyDreams [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 9:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Past relationship shaped me, now not wanting LTR. Help! |
And what comes to LTR, you just gotta start meeting girls. Shocking, isnt it
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