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Author:  amateurhour21 [ Sun Jan 06, 2013 11:10 pm ]
Post subject:  In need of a clever reply
Supposed to see a movie tonight w/ a girl neead a clever reply to "and we're just going as friends right? Haha" I know she wants the D just need to somehow turn this one around.
Author:  RandD [ Sun Jan 06, 2013 11:16 pm ]
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Just disqualify her.

"of course your too young/old/short/tall/blonde/ for me"
Author:  enesta [ Sun Jan 06, 2013 11:21 pm ]
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If she's already interested, I prefer to go the ambiguous route in situations like this, get her mind going.

"Something like that"

It'll confuse her and keep her on her toes.
Author:  Tr@veler [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 12:00 am ]
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If you know she's interested (which you say she is) then go with something like:

"Whatever you need as plausible deniability to tell your friends..."
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 12:07 am ]
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This is an indication that you weren't clear at all about your intentions when you met her, otherwise she'd never even question that you were meeting for romantic purposes to begin with.

Even if you begin your interaction indirectly, by the time you're actually getting her number, be clear that you find her attractive and you want to meet to do something that sounds like a date (but hopefully it's an interesting, unique date idea, not a boring "drinks / dinner / movie" date).

Figuring out a "witty response" is pointless - you need to properly game her IN PERSON if she's going to change her mind about you as a potential romantic partner.
Author:  enesta [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 12:15 am ]
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This is an indication that you weren't clear at all about your intentions when you met her, otherwise she'd never even question that you were meeting for romantic purposes to begin with.

Even if you begin your interaction indirectly, by the time you're actually getting her number, be clear that you find her attractive and you want to meet to do something that sounds like a date (but hopefully it's an interesting, unique date idea, not a boring "drinks / dinner / movie" date).

Figuring out a "witty response" is pointless - you need to properly game her IN PERSON if she's going to change her mind about you as a potential romantic partner.
Well, he said she already 'wants his D'. At that point, who cares if she knows whether or not he's interested. And truly, who cares what his text says at that point. He just needs to keep her activated long enough to close the deal in person (as you said). That's why I suggested being ambiguous, further her confusion. No reason to directly state your intentions until you plan to close the deal in person.
Author:  amateurhour21 [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 12:38 am ]
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Holy shit those are some clever ass replies..I was at work though & couldn't resist just replying.
I simply said
"Haha are we playing hard to get?"

I'll let you know how things play out. I appreciate the comments.
Author:  amateurhour21 [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 1:47 am ]
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I guess she doesn't want the d anymore she said "haha no i'm just not interested to my reply" what I learned from this experience is that you have to probably hangout at least once with not interests if you haven't seen each other for the last 3 months. She previously wanted the d, but things change.
Author:  daffy duck [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 6:53 am ]
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Quote:
I guess she doesn't want the d anymore she said "haha no i'm just not interested to my reply" what I learned from this experience is that you have to probably hangout at least once with not interests if you haven't seen each other for the last 3 months. She previously wanted the d, but things change.
well of course she's going say she's not interested. you kinda put her on the spot.

point is:

1) she responded
2) she's going out with you

this isn't game over just yet.
Author:  Tr@veler [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 11:59 am ]
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Quote:
Quote:
I guess she doesn't want the d anymore she said "haha no i'm just not interested to my reply" what I learned from this experience is that you have to probably hangout at least once with not interests if you haven't seen each other for the last 3 months. She previously wanted the d, but things change.
well of course she's going say she's not interested. you kinda put her on the spot.

point is:

1) she responded
2) she's going out with you

this isn't game over just yet.
This. Assume this is a shit test and that she is attracted. Stay persisten and Jon needy and just have a good time.
Author:  puaninja [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 12:27 pm ]
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I just had a girl say the same thing to me, although it was my ex, so it's a little different. She texted me to ask if I wanted to go hiking, so I figured it was on. Then I asked her if she wanted to get some dinner later this week. She was like "Sure, but just as friends, right?"

Normally I'd just pass the shit test with the perfunctory "Yea, sure, uh huh, whatever you say" type response. But since I've already been ballz deep in this girl, I knew I could go a little more direct with her so she knew I had a stronger frame than hers. She actually really likes flattery and hates negs, so I told her that I can't help but be attracted to her since she's so pretty, and I'm not going to try to hide how I feel about her. I also said I wouldn't push myself on her, that way she'll feel more comfortable about it.

Girls are so fucking predictable. I just had that line used on me yesterday then I come here to the forum and the first thread I read is about the same line that was just used on me. Facepalm.
Author:  amateurhour21 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 7:31 am ]
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Haha yeah that's a different scenario for sure since you already knew she had previously wanted the d. What did she say in reply to your text?
The huge problem with mine was the fact that she rescheduled for a different day & which lead her to logically think about it.
Haven't seen her in 3 months + only hungout twice w/ a big group of friends = a logical hesitation.
Author:  puaninja [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 2:31 pm ]
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The girl didn't respond to my text and I let it go. Scheduled another date later on and proceeded with my plan. I'm halfway there now I think.

Again, just proceed calmly and don't get caught up trying to fight the friends thing. Just work your normal game and see what happens over time.
Author:  amateurhour21 [ Wed Jan 09, 2013 9:18 pm ]
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I agree with you to a certain extent if the girl is a hb10 or ridiculously hot, but this girl was nothing special so I decided no more time on her would be the best alternative.
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