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| Author: | zjeb [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 1:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Getting out of the friendzone! Need Help!!!!! |
Now I like this girl, and she knows that i have a crush on her, and she said this to me "I also like you. So I don't want you being shy about the fact that you told me"... I don't really believe her cuz i feel like our relationship changed a lil. We've been good friends for like 6 months. but i want something more. |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 4:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting out of the friendzone! Need Help!!!!! |
You get out of the friendzone by making her think about having sex with you. So, she needs to see you as a sexual person, and then she needs to see you as a person she can imagine herself having sex with. Don't tell her about your feelings. Tell her how sexy you think she is. |
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| Author: | stealthninja [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 6:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting out of the friendzone! Need Help!!!!! |
I agree, telling her how you feel will only solidify your place in the friend zone. I've been there before and it really sucks....It's hard to get out if ever at all. It may not be too late if you SHOW her via body language how you feel. You have to freeze her out from communication for a while. Then the next move is to meet with her in person and turn up the heat. Lock eyes, lots of flirting, Kino escalation and dominate her. Create that sexual chemistry. The less words, the better. Seems like she likes your personality, you just have to put it all on the line for what you really want. Good luck |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 2:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting out of the friendzone! Need Help!!!!! |
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| Author: | dragonAlpha [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 7:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting out of the friendzone! Need Help!!!!! |
Quote: I agree, telling her how you feel will only solidify your place in the friend zone. I've been there before and it really sucks....It's hard to get out if ever at all. It may not be too late if you SHOW her via body language how you feel. You have to freeze her out from communication for a while. Then the next move is to meet with her in person and turn up the heat. Lock eyes, lots of flirting, Kino escalation and dominate her. Create that sexual chemistry. The less words, the better. Seems like she likes your personality, you just have to put it all on the line for what you really want. Good luck
stealthninja is right. I was in the same situation once and you need to basically communicate without talking. The break in the communication will help in her not seeing you as a friend. Try not to see her for a little while, but don't actively avoid her if you do happen to see her. After a break of a week or something, almost start from scratch with her. Use some kino if you can, and lots of flirting. And one more thing, after you break contact for a while, make sure not to reestablish "friend-zone" trust. Don't let her tell you her life story all over again. She can trust you, but she has to physically trust you, not as a friend, but as a sexual partner. I never had these lessons when it happened to me, but hopefully this can help you.
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| Author: | Versalis [ Sun Jan 06, 2013 12:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting out of the friendzone! Need Help!!!!! |
A week break? Guys, he's clearly known this girl for a while. A week break isn't anything. And regardless, the "freeze out" thing is not for this sort of situation at all. The issue is he's solidly freindzoned, he wants to start moving out of there. If he just avoids her for a few weeks, he's still squarely in the dickless nice guy category. Maybe some HUGE break like six+ months would handle it, but that seems wildly unnecessary to me. |
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| Author: | SilverTonguedFox [ Sun Jan 06, 2013 4:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting out of the friendzone! Need Help!!!!! |
If you are absolutely already stuck in the friendzone, as another poster said above, a ceasefire in communication is necessary. One of the best pieces of advice I have extracted from this forum is to NEVER directly tell a girl your feelings towards her. It keeps her guessing and adds that sense of mystery, and doesn't place you in her back pocket. PUA's display interest not through pouring their heart out with feelings and love poems, but through kino escalation, flirting, and sexual hinting/subtle suggesting. As another poster said, place the image of you having sex with her in her head. In short, if you are already friendzoned, you must start with a blank canvas. Freeze for however long you deem fit, and dive in with a new approach. -SilverTonguedFox |
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