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Author:  hustler101 [ Fri Jan 04, 2013 4:37 pm ]
Post subject:  How does a PUA keep a relationship?

I've been in the gave for over 3 years now.. and I find keeping a relationship with a girl almost impossible.
My spell wears off after 2.5 months, and while I'm dating the girl I always have a feeling that we aren't on the same page.
I hit on other girls, while thinking in the back of my mind that I might be doing something wrong. At the end of it all I don't sarge as hardcore as if I was totally single, and my Game goes Dowwnnn...

How do you create that strong bond with a girl? Its strange but I feel incapable of caring for any girl on a deep level anymore.. I'm sure other PUA's might feel the same. Or perhaps this is just a phase that every PUA goes through.

So how does a PUA keep a relationship? Do you need a social circle to keep a girl??? Right now most of my friends are guys in the community which I don't feel comfortable introducing my girls to.
Is a normal social circle a must to keep a girl by your side and develop true intimacy? :|

Author:  puaninja [ Fri Jan 04, 2013 5:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How does a PUA keep a relationship?

Every girl wants her guy to be in some sort of social circle, or assimilate him into her own social circle. Personally, I dislike most women's friends, and their family even moreso.

I'd advise never letting a woman draw you into her social group. Because she'll just try to make you a kept man. You'll be sitting there by her side staying quiet while she yammers on about stupid shit with people you don't know and don't care about. Remember, the key to attracting women is to make them intersted in being a part of YOUR tribe.

As far as caring for the girl deeply and maintaining the relationship, that can be difficult once you become a pua. When you develop a strong frame and view women as easily dispensable it makes it hard to compromise and deal with the bullshit that all women try to put you through. But pua isn't meant to help you in relationships. All you can do is try to find a woman who is a good match for you and maintain your alpha attitude and hope she continues to like you.

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