This HB 9 or 9 and I have known each other for donkey's years, however there was a period of about 4 years where we didn't see each other once. Out of the blue she joins the badminton academy where I am a part time coach at and we reconnect, we would chat and see each other once a week for about 2 years as well as compete as a pait in tournaments. At this point I had no idea about the game or the PUA world and I sucked at talking to strangers etc.
We have both gone to uni, prior to this we had a moment where I was chilling around her house, looking back she was giving some IOIs (at least I think) I think an example that sticks in my mind is when I said off handedly that "can you feel the love tonight by elton john" was my all time favorite song. The next week when im chilling around hers she turns around saying she had to show me something and sings it to me while playing the piano (turns out shes was pretty damn awesome at both).
She gives me a lift home and then asks if I like her (I was caught like a damn dear in headlights), me thinking that I should be honest say yeah duh! (bad move I now think), we leave it like that for a bit.
Few weeks later something happens (something along the lines of neither of us seeing each other, i was genuinely busy however),she hears about me messing around with some other girls and goes cold but then sends a really odd text whining about something or other along the lines of why I always odd around her and she needs to talk to me,I send a prickly text saying "she hasnt really bothered initiating before so whats changed" and she counters with "I didn't want to lead you on".
So now after Ive freezed her out and read up on my game Ive started chatting to her, Ive psoted the last few messages below:If it really helps I can post a full conversation.
My questions for you guys, a)what stage would you say that I am at in the relationship? still stand a shot or have I been F-zoned (if so any posts to read up on?, I will be attempting a lot more kino and getting jealousy involved (provided you guys think its a good idea hhaa) B)whats my online game like? c) what would you guys respond to with the last few lines of "I have changed", One guy has suggested - "what? your tits grew?" haha.
Part 1: first convo where I was still too aloof and distant:
Me:
Hey dork
keeping out of trouble?
Her:
hey idiot yep. i had a slight mishap on wednesday but apart from that i have been good
what have you been up to recently?
Me:
having fun at uni, projects are so much fun
Her:
haha sounds fun! when are they in for?
Me:
theyre all in for friday. so no sleep for me the next few days. joy!
HEr:
dammn. get of facebook then !!
Me:
fine, didnt want to talk to you either
Her:
haha well i will probably see you next tuesday at badminton
Me:
no you won't, Im taking a break from badminton for a bit,
sucker!
Her:
awww why?
haha
Me:
I have to focus on improving other sports and stuff
im taking up shooting and now im the vice president of CUCF
Her:
woooow. why are you doing so much new stuff? cant you still play badminton over the christmas holidays though???
Me:
Im so busy over these days i barely get time to sleep haha
plus it tends to conflict with the session Im running at the gym
Her:
awww rubbish. we will have to meet up some time in the holidays then
Me:
Have your organising skills improved that much?!
Her:
haha they definately have
Me:
cool, Il leave it to you to sort something out
Her:
ok coool. shall we try and get holly involved too?
Me:
Guten abends. Wie gehts? Was machen Sie am wochenede? X
bugger, wrong person
Her:
hahahahahahahaha
impressive
Me:
atleast you cant understand it!
if you can handle organising 3 people at once then sure
has to be something new though
Her:
haha i just google translated it so HA! umm sure i will try and organise something
what do you mean new?
Me:
so so sad
cool, surprise me
Her:
what do you mean by new though haha? i have no idea
Me:
new generally means something we havent done before
usaully we fail to do anything, so we have to do something
Her:
haha ok. we will do something i promise
Part 2: I think its bit better
*knock knock*
Today
08:49
Ana Cowie
Who's there? (sorry I fell asleep)
09:55
Ishaak Saleem
oh i was just seeing if you were still there xD
09:56
Ana Cowie
Haha woops. I thought it was going to be some incredible joke!!!
09:59
Ishaak Saleem
nah Im saving those for when we hang out next
10:22
Ana Cowie
Looking forward to it
10:32
Ishaak Saleem
yeah, you know its going to be amazeballs paha
10:38
Ana Cowie
Amaze balls? We can no longer be friends....
10:40
Ishaak Saleem
well it could be lobstrominous as well I guess, but with you its hard to tell
10:41
Ana Cowie
Haha is it bad that I have no idea what lobstrominous means??
10:42
Ishaak Saleem
Nope, a) because I spelt it wrong (Doh!) its actually Lobstromonous, b) because it means whatever you want it to mean
Today
15:05
Ana Cowie
haha so lobstronomous could mean either good or bad? well thats stupid
15:25
Ishaak Saleem
is it though? This way you have no idea what I mean
15:26
Ana Cowie
haha very true. it is actually genius
15:34
Ishaak Saleem
I am known to occasionally be one
15:34
Ana Cowie
haha no the word is genius. not you
15:44
Ishaak Saleem
Ana you are such a lobstomonous person.
15:54
Ana Cowie
right back at ya
15:56
Ishaak Saleem
what do you mean by that
15:56
Ana Cowie
you will never know
15:57
Ishaak Saleem
damn and here i thought i had you all figured out!
15:57
Ana Cowie
haha i have changed