PUA Forum :: Need help in winning over a girl

Recently got into sarging in the last month and i've improved a lot at picking up women. However, without sounding too soppy, all I really want is one particular girl from my hometown and thats why I started this all. To get better with women. This girl invited me to stay with her at university for a night, hinting at what might happen and then she ends up being too tired and saying she just wants to sleep, so i sleep in her bed and dont even kiss her. I really wanted her still, so texted her quite a bit and she started taking longer to reply. On new years eve i met her literally on the countdown and started making out with her, at which point she seemed really happy to see me. I then took this to be such good news and we were getting on so well and as I was drunk I made the mistake of just following her round and not letting her out my sight. Later in the night she became way less keen and her friends told me she has something going with someone at university. I even heard her ask someone not to leave her for a second as she knew all I wanted to do was make out with her. I desperately want to win her back and I can only think the best way is to never speak to her again until the next holidays when i should contact her again, but be a lot less keen? I will definitely not let my feelings get the better of me and allow myself to be too keen in the future. Would love any advice on what to do.

Keep sarging. Then after not contacting her for a week, text her again and ask her for her opinion. Tell her that there are two girls you met recently, but they are sisters. You want to know if you should ask out one or the other, both, or neither of them. Tell her to give you her opinion since you consider her a close female friend.

Trust me, that REALLY fucks their frame all kinds of up.

I do get a lot of girls in my town and have got on a lot of her close friends, so I think it will work, I might say the two girls are best friends instead of sisters though as she might think i'm being a bit far fetched and question if it's true.

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as with most stuff, it's how good the acting is. I know guys who have tried similar things and were laughed at
or insulted.

"OHHHHHH< really? Twins are interested in you, my my you are quite a catch, now go to your twins and leave me alone"

LOL

Author:	Jev [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 3:18 pm ]
Post subject:	Need help in winning over a girl
Recently got into sarging in the last month and i've improved a lot at picking up women. However, without sounding too soppy, all I really want is one particular girl from my hometown and thats why I started this all. To get better with women. This girl invited me to stay with her at university for a night, hinting at what might happen and then she ends up being too tired and saying she just wants to sleep, so i sleep in her bed and dont even kiss her. I really wanted her still, so texted her quite a bit and she started taking longer to reply. On new years eve i met her literally on the countdown and started making out with her, at which point she seemed really happy to see me. I then took this to be such good news and we were getting on so well and as I was drunk I made the mistake of just following her round and not letting her out my sight. Later in the night she became way less keen and her friends told me she has something going with someone at university. I even heard her ask someone not to leave her for a second as she knew all I wanted to do was make out with her. I desperately want to win her back and I can only think the best way is to never speak to her again until the next holidays when i should contact her again, but be a lot less keen? I will definitely not let my feelings get the better of me and allow myself to be too keen in the future. Would love any advice on what to do.

Author:	midlif_crysus [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 3:41 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Need help in winning over a girl
Quote: Recently got into sarging in the last month and i've improved a lot at picking up women. However, without sounding too soppy, all I really want is one particular girl from my hometown and thats why I started this all. To get better with women. This girl invited me to stay with her at university for a night, hinting at what might happen and then she ends up being too tired and saying she just wants to sleep, so i sleep in her bed and dont even kiss her. I really wanted her still, so texted her quite a bit and she started taking longer to reply. On new years eve i met her literally on the countdown and started making out with her, at which point she seemed really happy to see me. I then took this to be such good news and we were getting on so well and as I was drunk I made the mistake of just following her round and not letting her out my sight. Later in the night she became way less keen and her friends told me she has something going with someone at university. I even heard her ask someone not to leave her for a second as she knew all I wanted to do was make out with her. I desperately want to win her back and I can only think the best way is to never speak to her again until the next holidays when i should contact her again, but be a lot less keen? I will definitely not let my feelings get the better of me and allow myself to be too keen in the future. Would love any advice on what to do. your post is a bit confusing. If you were making out on new years, why did you need to follow her around? Anyway, It seems you proved to be a horny needy bastard. You shouldnt study pua material to get ONE woman. The way to get ONE woman is to keep showing up in her life, and eventually winning her over. PUA is a numbers game, game 10, maybe you get 4 or 5.

Author:	Jev [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 4:24 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Need help in winning over a girl
I do want to carry on sarging, as I started to get quite good at it, started spending everyday researching and experimenting it. If I can't get this girl, I will carry on training, however I want this girl the most. I made out with her and I thought it was going well, until she asked her friend to not leave her so I couldnt talk to her. I got with her best friend a year before so I dont know if that has anything to do with it. I don't want to keep following her around now, I want to demonstrate higher value and find a way of getting her really intrigued by me, but I'm not sure if I've blown it by texting her too much and acting stupid whilst drunk. I even said to her that we should meet in the daytime and she responded that she's not a very interesting person. I feel I could sarge a lot better looking women, but i want this one the most because her personality is funny and kinky. N

Author:	puaninja [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 4:32 pm ]
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Keep sarging. Then after not contacting her for a week, text her again and ask her for her opinion. Tell her that there are two girls you met recently, but they are sisters. You want to know if you should ask out one or the other, both, or neither of them. Tell her to give you her opinion since you consider her a close female friend. Trust me, that REALLY fucks their frame all kinds of up.

Author:	Jev [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 4:33 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Need help in winning over a girl
That is such a good idea, cheers, will do that

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Author:	midlif_crysus [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 4:46 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Need help in winning over a girl
Quote: Keep sarging. Then after not contacting her for a week, text her again and ask her for her opinion. Tell her that there are two girls you met recently, but they are sisters. You want to know if you should ask out one or the other, both, or neither of them. Tell her to give you her opinion since you consider her a close female friend. Trust me, that REALLY fucks their frame all kinds of up. This would work assuming she will believe it. If she knows hes not getting alot of girls, she will let him blow himself up. ALL individuals are different

Author:	Jev [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 4:48 pm ]
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I do get a lot of girls in my town and have got on a lot of her close friends, so I think it will work, I might say the two girls are best friends instead of sisters though as she might think i'm being a bit far fetched and question if it's true.

Author:	midlif_crysus [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 4:53 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Need help in winning over a girl
Quote: I do get a lot of girls in my town and have got on a lot of her close friends, so I think it will work, I might say the two girls are best friends instead of sisters though as she might think i'm being a bit far fetched and question if it's true. as with most stuff, it's how good the acting is. I know guys who have tried similar things and were laughed at or insulted. "OHHHHHH< really? Twins are interested in you, my my you are quite a catch, now go to your twins and leave me alone" LOL

Author:	Jev [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 4:58 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Need help in winning over a girl
Quote: Quote: I do get a lot of girls in my town and have got on a lot of her close friends, so I think it will work, I might say the two girls are best friends instead of sisters though as she might think i'm being a bit far fetched and question if it's true. as with most stuff, it's how good the acting is. I know guys who have tried similar things and were laughed at or insulted. "OHHHHHH< really? Twins are interested in you, my my you are quite a catch, now go to your twins and leave me alone" LOL Hmmm, its a good idea and probably worth a try. What would you advise to do instead though?

Author:	puaninja [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 6:24 pm ]
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Here's why that works. If she is on to your game, then she knows that the reason you are bullshitting her is just to get her jealous because you like her. If she is interested in you, then she'll play along in one way or another. If she is too stupid to realize you are just fucking with her, then she'll give you a genuine answer while also becoming jealous, even if she didn't really like you that much. If she questions you, then you have the option to either absurdify it for humorous effect, or try to legitimize it by furnishing her with seemingly believable information. If she's like "Yeah right.." You can respond: absurdly- "No I'm serious, they are both Maxim models I met on my friend's yacht. Trust me, I wouldn't lie to you." genuinely-"No, this is actually true, I know it seems like BS. But these girls are identical twins that used to live across the street from me growing up, and now they are back visiting from college and their family invited me over for dinner the other night."

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