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Author:  KurtCobain [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 2:56 pm ]
Post subject:  She tries to make me look needy
Instead of asking to meet up, she's sent me a text saying what she's doing, and if I want to tag along and I should let her know. The problem is it doesn't feel like she wants me enough. I'm sure she does, but it's like she's too cool for school. She just won't ask me nicely will you come? or say she wants me to come. I want to reply, "that wasn't much of an invite, i think i'll give it a miss" but I don't feel that is a correct response. I want her to make more of an effort and don't want her to think I'm easy. That she can just say something and I'm meant to say, "Yes, I want to come". (Fuck, I feel like a girl) Is this even something to worry about. I'm not scared of losing her, I just want the girl to make an effort... after all I am the prize ;)

Any suggestions? Or am I being stupid? Thanks!
Author:  puaninja [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 3:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She tries to make me look needy
She's just doing what pua's are trained to do, which is asking the other person if they want to "tag along".

What you do is refuse to invite yourself. Tell her you'd like to hang out (but if she doesn't invite you), then just tell her you'll let her know when you are free because you have some things to do. You can call her the day of and ask her again what she is doing, even if you know she is doing the thing she already told you about. Give her the chance to say "Come and meet me." If she doesn't, then you can tell her that you can try to make it up that way later or have her meet you at a certain place.

Remember, you are never asking a question, as that seeks validation and makes you needy. You are always telling her something and making statements.
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