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| Author: | MrRawb [ Tue Jan 01, 2013 2:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do I get shy women to open up to me? |
Alright guys here's the brief description. Last week I had a date with a really shy girl and it was going nowhere This is with a girl who said she loves video games. I'd try and play air hockey with her and all she did was just stand there like if I were playing with a cactus. I'd play racing games with her and she'd just turn the wheel for half a second and just got up and left because she said "I'm losing" without even trying. I'd try and tease her and joke around but she just wouldn't get the message. The only time it did go well was when we went in to watch a movie and we cuddled together. When I tried to go in and make my move she'd just laugh like a "Pfft" sorta thing. She was just too shy to open up who she was around me. I have another date with her this Saturday and I don't wanna fuck this one up. How do I get her to be more comfortable around me and show me her wild side? |
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| Author: | bmw2312 [ Tue Jan 01, 2013 9:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do I get shy women to open up to me? |
Just going off what you said. It seems like she either is mad at you for something or just not into you. If she pulls that again with you ask her what's wrong and make sure she knows your into her and she is not just giving you the run around. |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 1:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do I get shy women to open up to me? |
This girl sounds to be extremely shy, low self esteem and possibly even depressed. She likes playing games but doesn't like competing. Or possibly, she doesn't like playing games and just likes you and told you she does. I've had girls tell me they like all sorts of shit that does not interest them in the slightest. Regardless, stop trying to get her to banter. It's not in some girls and she probably feels abused by you(I know it's not your intention, but that's her take). I'm going to give you some advise here that will probably be met with bleets from keyboard warriors with little actual experience or lots of club rat experience. Extremely shy girls are different. You absolutely do not "game" them hard. You also do a lot more AFC stuff like tell her how pretty she looks and that you like her and she's special. You are not, I repeat not DLVing yourself with these girls. She is shy in part because she has very little self esteem. Now don't misunderstand me and start worshipping the girl, but stuff like buying her a flower before the date and giving it to her, makes her feel more appreciated and does not put you in a bad position. Do not make her feel like you think she's too good for you, but do make her feel special and appreciated. |
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