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Should I go for it or just walk away?? And if I do take her out any tips on where to take a girl with a boyfriend??

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Should I go for it or just walk away?? And if I do take her out any tips on where to take a girl with a boyfriend??

Up to you.

Just continue what your doing and if anything flirt more esp if her bf is nearby. Soon enough cracks will appear and such.

If he's AFC/beta he's get all stressy at her which will force her more onto you.

Dear other moderators:

I accidentally forgot to uncheck the shadow topic thing lol sorry

...and I don't know how to reverse this error

in my opinion move on.

if you really cant take her out of your head find another girl and flirt with her too, but oneitis with a girl that is in a relationship is the most dangerous type because she loves the attention but will probably as you said never cheat.

if you exit gracefully and stop talking to her, and when she breaks up manage to find yourself in a social gathering with her, this would be the best situation for you to game her.

Agreed, best bet is to move on and disappear from her life for at least several of weeks. Let alone there are 2342837482394923487 other girls one can game.

Soft next her then call her in a couple months and ask her how life's been.

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Soft next her then call her in a couple months and ask her how life's been.

What do you mean by soft text? Just "keep in touch"??

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Soft next her then call her in a couple months and ask her how life's been.

What do you mean by soft text? Just "keep in touch"??

Soft next means move on with your life and only think about her if she contacts YOU again. Basically you are done with her, "nexting" her, unless she comes calling or texting you on your own terms. But most of the time they'll forget about you if it goes on too long, so that's why I suggest giving them a call after a considerable amount of time has passed just to give it one last shot. Maybe the bad blood or whatever other problems (boyfriend, etc.,) will have gone away and she'll be willing to talk to you. If not, soft next her again!

Author:	testin [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 3:55 am ]
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Met this girl, she has a boyfriend (been 6 months in a relationship) but I got her # and I've had a few text convos with her but never pushed for a hangout yet. She did mention she is down to chill but would have to find a good time since she is really busy... I'm not bothered by the boyfriend really but need to know if it is worth going for and how I should play it... She knows I like her but she said it would never work between us because of her PAST (she dated couple guys I know) so she said she would rather have me as a friend... I said I'm cool with that but I continue to flirt and I think she knows my intentions but she still would chill if I pushed for it. She doesn't seem like a girl that would cheat but I can use some BF techniques and try anyway... Should I go for it or just walk away?? And if I do take her out any tips on where to take a girl with a boyfriend?? I'm thinking of just being a "friend" to build trust so I can get more info on the BF and destroy him...

Author:	BITmixit [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 5:07 am ]
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Quote: Should I go for it or just walk away?? And if I do take her out any tips on where to take a girl with a boyfriend?? Up to you. Just continue what your doing and if anything flirt more esp if her bf is nearby. Soon enough cracks will appear and such. If he's AFC/beta he's get all stressy at her which will force her more onto you.

Author:	testin [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 6:14 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Should I go for it or just walk away?? And if I do take her out any tips on where to take a girl with a boyfriend?? Up to you. Just continue what your doing and if anything flirt more esp if her bf is nearby. Soon enough cracks will appear and such. If he's AFC/beta he's get all stressy at her which will force her more onto you. From what I know, yeah the boyfriend is needy. And honestly I don't think she is really INTO him but he is a nice guy and from what I know it is the first time a guy is respecting her and treating her right. She is going to LA for vacation to meet an old friend soon and she is going alone. She mentioned that the boyfriend isn't liking it so he does seem needy. Plus he likes ALL her facebook pics too which is kinda messed up... He definitely clingy so I can DLV him big time by playing the BFD right.

Author:	testin [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 7:04 am ]
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CONFIRMED: BOYFRIEND = LOSER + CLINGY as fuck... Ok I really wanna destroy the nigga now, hes a "nice guy" for sure lol

Author:	Chief [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 2:34 pm ]
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Dear other moderators: I accidentally forgot to uncheck the shadow topic thing lol sorry ...and I don't know how to reverse this error

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Author:	testin [ Sat Jan 05, 2013 9:54 pm ]
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Quote: Dear other moderators: I accidentally forgot to uncheck the shadow topic thing lol sorry ...and I don't know how to reverse this error huh?

Author:	Jason. [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 4:57 am ]
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in my opinion move on. if you really cant take her out of your head find another girl and flirt with her too, but oneitis with a girl that is in a relationship is the most dangerous type because she loves the attention but will probably as you said never cheat. if you exit gracefully and stop talking to her, and when she breaks up manage to find yourself in a social gathering with her, this would be the best situation for you to game her.

Author:	testin [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 5:12 am ]
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Quote: in my opinion move on. if you really cant take her out of your head find another girl and flirt with her too, but oneitis with a girl that is in a relationship is the most dangerous type because she loves the attention but will probably as you said never cheat. if you exit gracefully and stop talking to her, and when she breaks up manage to find yourself in a social gathering with her, this would be the best situation for you to game her. I would probably never see her again if I don't introduce her to my friends. And knowing that this girl doesn't meet a lot of guys she would probably stick with the guy she is with now. I mean most girls stay with a guy till they find someone better, this girl is kinda like that. But as of now I haven't been contacting her and trying to move on. She doesn't even make the effort to initiate anything either. She is one of those girls that expects the guy to do everything so I probably wouldn't even hear from her either. But hey who knows, maybe she breaks up with the guy one day and might hit me up, doubtful but I can leave the ball on her court...

Author:	amateurhour21 [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 5:51 am ]
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Agreed, best bet is to move on and disappear from her life for at least several of weeks. Let alone there are 2342837482394923487 other girls one can game.

Author:	testin [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 6:39 am ]
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Quote: Agreed, best bet is to move on and disappear from her life for at least several of weeks. Let alone there are 2342837482394923487 other girls one can game. I've disappeared for about 2 weeks now but she is on vaca anyway. Although I've done it before for almost a month and haven't heard from her. So yeah, I do plan on not contacting her. And I am gaming other girls too, but I am not over this one really.

Author:	puaninja [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 2:16 pm ]
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Soft next her then call her in a couple months and ask her how life's been.

Author:	testin [ Mon Jan 07, 2013 11:24 pm ]
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Quote: Soft next her then call her in a couple months and ask her how life's been. What do you mean by soft text? Just "keep in touch"??

Author:	KnightDK [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 12:52 am ]
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Don't wait too long or she might just forget you, once happened with me when took too long time off. I say go for this girl, it doesn't matter that she have BF, getting to dump her current BF will build u some experience in future with these situations.

Author:	puaninja [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 3:01 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Soft next her then call her in a couple months and ask her how life's been. What do you mean by soft text? Just "keep in touch"?? Soft next means move on with your life and only think about her if she contacts YOU again. Basically you are done with her, "nexting" her, unless she comes calling or texting you on your own terms. But most of the time they'll forget about you if it goes on too long, so that's why I suggest giving them a call after a considerable amount of time has passed just to give it one last shot. Maybe the bad blood or whatever other problems (boyfriend, etc.,) will have gone away and she'll be willing to talk to you. If not, soft next her again!

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Author:	testin [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 5:56 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: Soft next her then call her in a couple months and ask her how life's been. What do you mean by soft text? Just "keep in touch"?? Soft next means move on with your life and only think about her if she contacts YOU again. Basically you are done with her, "nexting" her, unless she comes calling or texting you on your own terms. But most of the time they'll forget about you if it goes on too long, so that's why I suggest giving them a call after a considerable amount of time has passed just to give it one last shot. Maybe the bad blood or whatever other problems (boyfriend, etc.,) will have gone away and she'll be willing to talk to you. If not, soft next her again! What is a good amount of time? This girl is weird, she says she would text me later or msg me next time and never comes to it when we use to talk more often, even if I wait a week + I'd hear nothing...