In the past few months, my dad has been trying to convince me to go out with his friend's daughter. So did that friend. Today I told myself "fuck it, I'll just do it" even though she's an HB 6.5 - 7. She turned out to be intelligent and with a 'good' character, and I think I kinda like her. So anyways, I called her and said "hey, it's X's son, Y, I'm going to eat something, wanna join?"
At first I could hear by her tone that she was kinda freaked out (I lack any social skills) and said "Uhh, okay". "I'll pick you up in about an hour, sounds good?" "Yeah okay".
40 minutes later I called to ask if she was ready, and she didn't answer. I assumed she was in the shower and waited a few minutes. She called me about 5-7 minutes later and said she's ready. "I'll text you to let you know when I'm outside".
So I drove to her place (actually her grandma's, it's a bit complicated) and I texted her. She got inside my car, "hey how are you doing" and we drove off.
I usually worry about "what should I talk about with a girl", but that wasn't the case. We had a good chemistry and always had something to talk about. At one time during the meal she asked me if I had a girlfriend. "No" I answered, and she responded "why not?". I answered something like "I'm too old for that stuff
" (cynically, I'm only 18 years old. She's almost 17, BTW.)At another part of the conversation, she asked "what's the craziest thing you've ever done" and "what's the most interesting thing you've ever done" (it sounds like she's picking me up
). We agreed that I'm a dull person 
.I'll say another thing - at the beginning I tried kind of "negging" her, e.g, when we were looking at the menues, I told her "take one of their salads, they're not fattening at all" followed by a smile and "I'm kidding". But anyways, she didn't really care. She said something like "I don't care about my diet when on vacation." (she's on vacation, again, pretty darn complicated, but irrelevant)
So from that point I thought to myself "finally a mature girl who doesn't play stupid games".
At the end she looked at the check and immediately threw in a $50 bill. "Hey, you must be joking" I told her. We both insisted to pay so we laughed and said "let's just leave a $100 tip" (both meals were like 2X dollars). But anyways, fortunately money isn't close to being an issue in either of our families and we ended up paying about 50-50.
It was already about 1 AM when we started heading towards the car. We got into the car and drove off, when I said "hey, let's go to the movies!". "Sure, which movie do you wanna go to?" "IDK, let's just see if anything is running now".
We drove to the movies, but unfortunately, all movies have already ended by that time of the night. "Well, at least we tried". I drove her home, and she was about to leave the car when I said "hey" "give me a high-five." She gave me a high-five and we said good night. (I think high-fives are much more fun and creative than anything else
)So my concern is: we didn't 'define' this night as anything but "going to eat together". I don't know if technically it could be considered a "date", and I don't know if she was in to me. I know we both had a great time. But we didn't have any sort of sexual affection (the only time we touched each other was the goodbye high-five. And the fact that she asked if I had a girlfriend, and why don't I, made me think. Maybe she's already FZ'd me in her mind? I have no clue.
I'd like some help for those who know women a bit better than I do.
However, this won't work with sandwiches or anything else that's single piece, (like chicken legs). Dunno why, but my SNL rate ticked up quite a bit once I started doing this. I guess it triggers a more LTR vibe than most first dates? 
". After she feeds you, she'll usually ask for you to feed her something. If at no other, desert.