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| Author: | RandD [ Sat Dec 29, 2012 8:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Is there any point? |
So I get an email once a year from one of my exs saying happy xmas, hope your ok and healthy etc. I am polite and write back even though I knew she cheated on me and generally treated me badly. This year I found out she had slept with my friend while we were together, and a few other shitty things. I am tempted to write her back telling her I now know this. i feel it might help me get it off my chest. Am I being dumb or should I rub her nose in it? |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Sat Dec 29, 2012 8:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is there any point? |
let it go. No need to write back to her by the way. There is no point in opening old wounds. You owe it to yourself to get rid of all the negativity in your life, trust me, it will feel a lot better that way. |
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| Author: | BITmixit [ Sat Dec 29, 2012 9:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is there any point? |
NOPE, shit like that would just make her smile. Heres a translation from your talk to what would happen in her brain. Especially a slut like that. What you say: I know you cheated on me, <insert rant here> What she hears: ATTENTION  HE STILL WANTS ME IM SO FIIIIIT OOOO IM GONNA GO LET ANOTHER COCK FUCK ME WHOOP.The best way to damage a girls ego is to just ignore her attempts at getting attention. |
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Sun Dec 30, 2012 12:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is there any point? |
That's the last thing you want to do. Think about what it will accomplish. Saying that it will get things off your chest is just an excuse. It won't. Forget her and do your own thing. If this annual email is the only thing that stands between you letting her go, change email accounts. Either way, definitely ignore her. And I am sorry about your cheating ex- no homie deserves that. All you can do is learn and move on. |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Sun Dec 30, 2012 11:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is there any point? |
You could write an email telling her all that stuff and then save it to draft instead of mailing. Then you get all the vent therapy without any of the utterly useless and complicating drama. |
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| Author: | Dionysiux [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 2:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is there any point? |
That last one is a good idea. And while I agree with everyone else that you should not talk to her, I do believe it helps to get that sort of thing off your chest. So go ahead let it out. Is there a venting thread? Cuz I could def let out some steam!! |
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