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| Author: | frogdude [ Sat Dec 29, 2012 5:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | don't trust anyone? |
i'm a rafc. got some decent social skills now. Never had a social circle so now i'm trying to build one. Made some new friends or at least got acquainted with new people. My problem is though that these people i hang out with just flake out on me or just flat out ignore my texts. I was under the impression i make some good buds and we'd be like bros. But now i'm thinking should i just play a social game with guys too. use friends to my own ends and always concentrate on building a status or better friends. I know this might sound ridiculous but in truth i see myself as a do gooder. i believed that if i'm honest and hardworking, society would take care of me in turn. I found though that is anything but. The more nice i am the more people try to fucking use me. My family, my wingman. It is really frustrating. I really am starting to think i should get MEAN. not cruel but just take my emotions out of dealing with people. Climb to the top even if i have to step on a few heads. Wondering do you guys out there trust your friends? |
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| Author: | Hijo de Puta [ Sat Dec 29, 2012 5:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: don't trust anyone? |
I'm the same way man. I'm too generous. Its a good quality but you've gotta recognize that people take advantage of it. They need to prove to you they deserve your generosity. |
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Sat Dec 29, 2012 9:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: don't trust anyone? |
Always be sure you're self suffiecient and can rely on yourself. You can give people a chance, but make sure if they fail you your fall isn't big; so don't trust anyone, but occasionally you have to try. Essentially the idealistic concept of social animals is a failure, but when it works out, it's so beautiful. You should also read 48 Laws of Power. |
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| Author: | BITmixit [ Sat Dec 29, 2012 3:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: don't trust anyone? |
I use negs/approval tactics with everyone. I am still quite generous but know when to stop. Recently one of my best mates has started taking the piss with me giving him stuff like beers and fags so I started negging him and he always reacts. Its hilarious. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qy_mIEnnlF4 <Theres a good obviously comical version of what I do but I use words and some examples: Friend: Oh hey man, can't make it tonight man. Me: You're such a bellend mate, have a boring one on me. Friend: Hey man I brought some beers and munch for us to chill. Me: You fucking legend man! Unfortunately ALOT of people have a "how will this benefit me" mindset. Shitty world we live in. |
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