Quote: how, exactly, have you 'got this one'?
i gave up on 'cocky/funny' a long, long time ago. girls (or anyone with a semblance of intelligence) see right through that shit. i now just rely on my own natural, dark humour.
Really? I find cockiness especially when being 1on1 really helps. Like if a girl is doing:
Her: Oh im so attractive blahblahblah, don't I look hot in your hat. <went out clubbing wearing a santas hat, random girl pulled it off my head.
Me: tsktsk, I'm definitely a hotter santa then you. <cockiness/neg her
Her: Oh come oooooooooooon <standard attempt to get validation.
Me: hmmm I might let you be my little elf. We'll see.
Anyway OP, not gonna lie man...that was pretty terrible:
Quote: Me: what if I told you that you had something perfect that others dont have?
You basically say she's perfect without her giving you anything. Openers should be teasy/neggy/fun/interesting, avoid questions. Also don't say this shit till after she's gotten on your cock and done a good job at it. e.g
*sex finishes, she wants to cuddle*
Me *whisper in ear*: You are fucking stunning, you have been so hot tonight.
or for a girlfriend that you actually like and want to keep her around for a long time
*sex finishes, she wants to cuddle*
Me *whisper in ear*: I'm so glad I found you. <AFC but your allowed to do this with a girlfriend and every girlfriend I've said it to has instantly rolled over and started round 2. One of my top girlfriends instantly went to the bathroom and put a load of lingerie on.
Quote: her: What do you mean?
Me: well there are 3 things that make a person special
her: And whats that
Me: a good energy, a great personality and an outlook
her: True I suppose
She isn't investing at all, she's just replying.
Quote:
Me: well I'd just though of telling you that before I had to go
her: Where are you going
Me: aha I have homework to do
lil bit of investment. Good tip: I rarely am descriptive with girls about what I'm doing, they love knowing peoples business. Be vague and she will wonder. A simple basic one:
Her: Where are you going.
Me: Off to do something fun, you should try it  :O
Quote: unless you really really really want to talk to me haha
Don't do this, ever. Neediness without her even giving you a reason to be needy.
Quote: her: Same . Its no good.
She ignores your neediness mainly because...well your conversation is quite boring. You aren't giving her a reason to WANT to talk to you.
Quote: Haha we can talk later
This is okay, just sounds like shes being nice tbh. Also sounds like the standard "yeah im probably not gonna start a conversation with you again"
Quote: Me: alright if you insist
Making yourself available too easily again. Heres an example I used with my ex:
Her: We should definitely meet up for drinks soon.
Me: We'll see <be cheeky.
Her: When are you free?
Me: Not sure, busy boi. I'll let you know and you WILL be free :O
Her: You're such an asshole!
Me: You love it.
Her: Still cheeky as well
Quote: her: Haha I have stuff to do now anyways
This just screams "I didn't enjoy this, im gonna go do boring homework now"
I know it seems like I'm ripping you apart about this but take this advice and use it constructively. Personally I think you should use this girl as a "training mule" just rinse and repeat, open again, be cheeky. Find out what works then use it on other girls or even this girl. Girls are NEVER a "I'm never gonna be into you" as they are much more flippant then us men.
Anyway bro, have fun.
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