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Author:  FinishedBeingAFC [ Thu Dec 27, 2012 9:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Need some URGENT PUA advice on responding to a girl, please!
Hey,
I'm hoping one or more of you guys can help me with this.
So... there's a girl I've had this on & off thing with for about a year.
We've kissed a few times and we nearly got into a relationship but she got cold feet.

We hadn't seen each other for a while and eventually I saw her on a night out and she was flirting like crazy. I was teasing her all night and eventually she made the move for a kiss but I backed out and then teased her for trying it on with me.

I dunno where it's going but she messaged me out of the blue tonight.
She said "let's start 2013 with a new years resolution :)"
Now my gut feeling is that the message is about being 'friends' and staying in contact more often.
I don't want to be a sucker. The message was about 3 hours ago and I haven't responded.
I was thinking of responding later saying "Hey (nickname), New Years Resolutions? Sounds good. Let's do that :)" but is that crap?
Any ideas what I could say?

Thanks!
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Thu Dec 27, 2012 9:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some URGENT PUA advice on responding to a girl, ple
you can lead the conversation wherever you want it to go...she basically gave you a theme to work with. A New Years Resolution is usually a lifestyle change so think of how you can spin it where it involves the two of you ;)..
Author:  mephislee [ Thu Dec 27, 2012 9:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some URGENT PUA advice on responding to a girl, ple
Quote:
you can lead the conversation wherever you want it to go...she basically gave you a theme to work with. A New Years Resolution is usually a lifestyle change so think of how you can spin it where it involves the two of you ;)..
Exactly. The ball is in your court.Sounds like a fun place to be.I wouldn't worry too much about it being friendzone stuff.
Author:  FinishedBeingAFC [ Thu Dec 27, 2012 9:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some URGENT PUA advice on responding to a girl, ple
Thanks to both of you..
Sounds like a good idea. Any suggestions on how I could phrase it?
I'd like to be suggestive without going all out (i.e. let's you & I f***!)

BTW - I heard she was seeing a guy recently (hadn't f/k-closed yet!!)... so surprised she messaged me
Author:  FinishedBeingAFC [ Thu Dec 27, 2012 9:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some URGENT PUA advice on responding to a girl, ple
Having read my latest reply I can see why she may have contacted me.
I cannot think up of something fun / suggestive enough to say re 2013 resolutions...
Any help welcome!
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