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| Author: | Devious One [ Wed Dec 26, 2012 10:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Is PUA all BS? |
I mean all the bs theory behind us. Just walking out and being super confident, going after what you want with no regrets, seems just as productive. See the thing is, you can give me all the testimony you want, but stereotyping here, but your readers are mostly shut-ins, losers, anti social bums (by the way, I am in the category), so anything to get them out and about increases there chances immensely, see what I mean? Is there really an attraction, comfort, blah blah blah stage? Or is it just meaning a man and going after it, no matter what sort of attitude that works? |
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| Author: | BITmixit [ Wed Dec 26, 2012 11:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is PUA all BS? |
PUA is definitely a lot more then just getting a guy outside. I know tons of popular guys that don't get girls because they act too AFC with the girls. To me PUA is just about doing what I actually want to do with a girl, aka removing the fear of saying things incase of rejection, removing the social stigma and such and yes PUA tactics do work. For example my best mate at Uni has severe AFC problems, he's popular, had parties, goes out a lot but doesn't get random sex/girls interested because they see him more as a friend due to his AFC ways. He tries too hard to please a girl before fucking her when really you should fuck her then praise her. |
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| Author: | makeshiftalpha [ Thu Dec 27, 2012 12:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is PUA all BS? |
A lot of it is common sense dressed up as magic pills. But some of it's real gold, for example the concept of shit test was a real eye opener for me. So much of it seems to me to be the study of evolutionary biology. But in the end it does come down their to just getting your balls together and getting out their and doing stuff. |
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| Author: | AudacityOfHope [ Thu Dec 27, 2012 6:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is PUA all BS? |
Yes and no. You can spend a lot of time trying to do things when its just about confidence, delivery, and aggressiveness. I mean you have the confidence to approach a girl, if you have a smooth and convincing delivery and you are aggressive in escalating you'll usually get something. The biggest problem is this stuff is not reliable. It will work sometimes and other times it won't. Most people want something that will work all the time. As far as the shit tests....if you take shit, its like this. If you throw shit on a statute, a car, or a dollar it loses value. That's how it works with girls. You can be a millionaire but if you take shit the girl will think you are worthless. You have to be willing to build all your relationships on dignity or have no relationship at all. As far as being nice, people value what they have to earn more than what is given to them unless they are truly in need. As far as being the prize, this is based on the idea that dating you and sleeping you feels like a great accomplishment. Think about dating a HB or sleeping with a HB10, its a real boost for your ego. A feather in your cap. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Dec 27, 2012 1:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is PUA all BS? |
I went from being a skinny lonely loser sitting on my couch wanking off to porn, to a couple months later fucking one of the girls from the porn I was wanking off to! All I did was pop a cd into my computer that a friend gave me and listened to The Game and some other pick up related material. I cleaned my act up a bit, applied what I learned to real life, and lo-and-fucking-behold, pussy started falling on my dick. I could've sat there and called pua gay or stupid and reinforced my longstanding self-limiting belief system, but instead I took a chance and listened to people who were getting more out of life than I was. It worked for me so I believe it works. If you think that you don't need pua and you could do just as good without it, then great. Go do it. |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Thu Dec 27, 2012 4:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is PUA all BS? |
A lot of mainstream PU advice is bullshit. Value based pickup, text game, DHVs, social proof, BF destroyers, flake prevention. |
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