Everyone has been in the position my mate has been in and he is a good mate so he deserves to have support from me. Normally I would tell people like this to fuckoff but he's a good guy and was always there for me in the past.
So basically a year and a half ago my mate meets this girl at his new job and he pretty much vanishes off of any radar to spend all his time with him. This is a PUA turned AFC purely because he thought this girl was the "one."
Anyway A year and a half later, I return from uni and he sends me a text to meetup. I meetup with him down the pub. He then proceeds to explain that this girl dumped him 2 days ago (THE DAY BEFORE XMAS EVE) AND tells him that she has been fucking someone else...IN HIS BED.
So obviously I pull out the obvious PUA tactics to get over this girl. I told him to get new bed sheets, delete her from his life and to move on. I tell him that every morning when he wakes up he needs to look in the mirror and constantly tell himself that he deserves better then that and that she is a whore. He agrees and we proceed to get drunk...
...Then she texts him, he shows me
Her: Hey...It's christmas tomorrow and I don't want to be alone...It would be good to see you
Obviously I go with "mate come on, she deserves to be alone. The girls a fucking slut, she can't have it both ways. You need to be the one to show her this I'm afraid." he listens but then proceeds to text her back without showing me what it is. After a while he tells me
Him: Okay babe...I can't wait
xxI just roll my eyes as its proper AFC shit after a girl has treated you THAT badly. I try to explain to him more but he just wants to get drunk.
Is there anyway I can help him? what would you guys say or do in this situation as he does properlly love her and has stated
Him: She cheated on me with another guy in my bed yet if she told me tomorrow she wanted me back I would go straight away.