Hey I'm pretty new here. I'm 21 years old and I've never had a Girlfriend. I've only had sex once due to being at a rave and the girl being on X. I deal with a disease called sickle cell and I end up in the hospital a lot, in fact I'm in the hospital right now making this post. There're quite a few attractive nurses and nurses aids here that I would at least like to have them notice me. Is there anything I can do to make them take notice of me and start looking my way? Also, can I use my disease in anyway outside the hospital to get more women? I also would like to mention the fact I look nothing like my age. I was born 02/11/1991 but I look as if I'm 16 years old.

I was a late starter too. Getting into this stuff when I was 19 totally changed things for me and I got my first girlfriend when I was 21, so you're not too behind where I was at.

Anyway, about the whole looking 16 thing. Try your best to combat it with style and what not, but don't go overboard and don't stress about it too much. Your thoughts on how you look younger and how that might fuck shit up is going to do more damage then you actually looking younger.

It's all about the shit you've heard before... confidence is key. Also, be more present and you'll tend to say the right things more often as opposed to being lost in your head while hitting on girls.

I probably wouldn't worry about the nurses right now, but hey, cracking a joke won't hurt. Definitely read an ebook or two on picking up girls and constant go back to them. I used to keep notes and review them every few days. Consistency is important if you want to make improvement. Good luck!