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| Author: | mangofango [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 1:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | A girl who gives you orders, what to do…? |
I have met a girl at the club yesterday, we got connections, we kissed each other in front of all their friends. She was a bit drunk and after a while she started to be a bit demanding, like asking for a drink. So I know it is almost a rule not paying the first time, but I did for the sake of gentlemant. Than when out and while sitting on the stairs she asked me to put on the surface of a step my scarf to protect her butt. What I did not do and so she got pissed off and she left for a while. Than moving to another place, several time she let fall down a cigarette on the street, and she asked me with as it was an order to take it for her. Now I'm a bit embarassed about that, it is the first time that happen so strongly to me, and I did not react to her orders/whishes but some how sometimes they were really strong. I was like her showing to their frieds she had power and control on me, with a kind of a slavery situation. I would like to meet her againg, because she is really hot, but I do not have any idea how could I manage this kind of situation. If someone has ideas are welcomed, thanks. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 1:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl who gives you orders, what to do…? |
That chick has a fucked up frame bro. Don't become her bitch boy. |
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| Author: | User13247 [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 3:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl who gives you orders, what to do…? |
I don't see the problem of complying with a girl's wishes as long as they are reasonable and she asks nicely. However, if she gives you an order, that is, of course, totally out of line. You can ridicule it (say 'Woof!'), address it indirectly (stare at her until she says please), or simply ignore it (change the subject). If she continues giving orders after that, you can call her out on it. But whatever you do, don't follow her orders as this will establish some hierarchical relation that you definitely do not want. |
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| Author: | bundy [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 6:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl who gives you orders, what to do…? |
put your scarf down so she can sit on it??! LMAO "bitch this burberry scarf is worth more to me than you ever will be" or a slap to the face is the best response  no but actually definitely do not hop through such ridiculous hoops....simple requests are ok to do if she asks nicely...but never take an order bro |
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| Author: | smashthecrash [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 6:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl who gives you orders, what to do…? |
I remember "training" my ex on a similar thing. She would get in the habit of TELLING me something "Get me a drink" or "Bring me this" and I would loudly say "YES SIR!" and take my sweet time doing it, or not do it at all. She would get pissed when I'd call her "sir" and it wasn't long before I had her asking "Could you get me" and then she would thank me afterwards. To be honest though, man, it's not worth the effort. If she wasn't raised with some manners and a base respect for other human beings then she's FB material and nothing more. Nothing worse than an ungrateful bitch... you know, the kind that will use their vagina to get what they want and walk all over every beta in existence? |
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| Author: | KimPa [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 7:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl who gives you orders, what to do…? |
I met a girl from uni at one of the house parties I was invited to.. We had a computer with speakers and all. My friend got bored and asked me to take control of putting music for a bit while he goes and smoke a cigerratte.. A girl approached me and started choosing songs to play.. So i told her : " Hun, move aside.. This is the big boy's toy.." and she basically started saying " Noooooo, you move!! ". She is the bitchy type and I had to find a way to stop her from putting me in her frame. That was only an example of what she tried to do.. Had fun that night and was leading everyone to dance and drink and have fun! She knew i was money so she tried to interact with me few times in that night but I shut her off and ignored her while being really friendly and funny to her friends.. Later that night, I went outside to smoke and she followed me and said how everyone thinks i'm cool and a party animal. I told her: " So i have been told".. Her: " You are so full of yourself, aren't you?" Stared at her back.. Kept strong eye contact and went for the kiss.. She was by far the hottest girl at that party.. So basically, if a girl is demanding.. Ignore her and don't fall for her frame, be friendly to her friends and show a good vibe.. She will be following you like a lil puppy. See her as a piece of meat and not a hot babe. Girls like that love attention.. Once they get it, you are screwed! Be alpha, be yourself! |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl who gives you orders, what to do…? |
So you met a girl and she gives you orders. What right does she have? Are you being paid? Are you her little bitch? No. You say, nice to meet you, and leave. She can go get another bitch. You don't lay down your clothes for her to step on, you don't pick up her cigarette. You only pick up her legs to fuck her. |
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| Author: | KimPa [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 7:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl who gives you orders, what to do…? |
Quote: So you met a girl and she gives you orders. What right does she have? Are you being paid? Are you her little bitch? No. You say, nice to meet you, and leave. She can go get another bitch. You don't lay down your clothes for her to step on, you don't pick up her cigarette. You only pick up her legs to fuck her.
Money talk right there!
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| Author: | bundy [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 7:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl who gives you orders, what to do…? |
Quote: So you met a girl and she gives you orders. What right does she have? Are you being paid? Are you her little bitch? No. You say, nice to meet you, and leave. She can go get another bitch. You don't lay down your clothes for her to step on, you don't pick up her cigarette. You only pick up her legs to fuck her.
bahaha last sentence is fucking golden |
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| Author: | mangofango [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 9:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl who gives you orders, what to do…? |
Hey thank you so much to everyone for your comments. I would say that I'm more of a nice guy so than I tend to be gentle, and I do not consider that a weak point but a personal attitude. I guess everyone as his type of meat  to taste. But this was pretty arsh also their friends told her to stop. I just continued to ignore her, but ignore some time does not really works.@Timo the stare strategy seams pretty good, than you will work in a face to face confrontation, but probably she could be a kind of rebels from an authoritarian family, who has to prove her self framing others. @Bundy, yes I would be reply well if asked in a gentle way, I would add a touch of romantic act but she was pretty directive, like at army, she is studying laws. @smashtehcrash, you are totally right I consider myself a gentle Alpha, running my own company succesfully, but it is true she is looking for beta to manipulate. I like the Sir strategy but would you use it first time you meet someone, it could put you already on a submitted position. @KimPa, nice example, it is so true she was looking for attention, to be loved, and suck energy from others, the frame she was trying to put on me was pretty strong and if you are not strong on yourself you tent to be gentle. An exemple we were in a corner and I just open a little bit the buttons of her shirt, we touched a bit and kissed, than she ordered me to close her buttons. I tried to ignore her but it does not work when you are so close, probably I should learn to act like you and dont give her a shit, and go back to my normal party with my friends. @Traveler, yes is totally what I did at the end she wanted me to follow her and their friends, who never introduced to me (bitchy girl) and than after trying to put me this frame/order I stopped and said that like that was not the right attitude and state in which I was interested to know her and I said her that I she want to know me better to call me another day and I left. At the end after some analysis I think she is a bitchy girl with some personal issues to fix, but she is also really hot, and I had the change to go pretty far that night. So I was thinking to maybe contact her back for a drink out only the two of us, maybe call her in few days and give her another change and try your suggestions. thank you so much again it is worth gold !! |
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| Author: | Fly_Swatter [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 10:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A girl who gives you orders, what to do…? |
Personally, when I am asked to do something, all I do is laugh and ask if she's confused as to who's boss. I don't care how nicely she asks. However, I will do favours voluntarily without being asked. But as soon as I'm asked, forget it. Bitch, you can go get your own drink. Naw mean? |
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