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Author:  pro-di-gy [ Tue Dec 11, 2012 9:20 am ]
Post subject:  8.5 neighbor in college WOW
Alright so here is the situation, if someone could help that would be sweet...

I have a pretty hot neighbor in college that I totally dig since when we moved in.. I ignored her the first month and ran some PUA and got her kind of digging me.. She had a boyfriend though in another university but is a flirt but i started noticing she was flirting with me more than usual..

We started hanging out a lot almost every day and we went to this date thing for my fraternity as "friends" we got drunk and I kiss closed. After that we didn't really hook and just hung out for like a month in a half, her ex bf now was a total tool at the time cheating on her and making her cry all the time. So they finally broke up after me talking to her for 2 months.. She texted me to stay over the night the day that they broke up and all we did was make out..

2 days later we had sex. At that point not going to lie I had already been liking her, she's my preferred type (pretty) and I'm a sucker for that, and she has a decent personality.. So for the next 2 days I would randomly kiss her, and I can tell she was uncomfortable.. She is a HUGE flirt so she started going out partying and if she's an 8 - 8.5 she can get almost any guy so we went out and she was dancing with other guys and all this stuff.

Now when I confronted her about it like we had a talk about it and I said I kind of liked her because she was straying off me, and she said she kind of did too but didn't want anything right now and I understood I told her i didn't want a relationship neither right now, but as for sex she doesn't want to have sex anymore and now doesn't even talk to me anymore. Makes me seem almost like pathetic, she's in our inner circle of friends and everyone knows she's known for heart breaking guys.. so makes me feel dumb for falling for her a bit..

GOAL: I want her to kind of like me again, have sex with her a few more times, and move on. She is not exactly gf material and I realized that now after getting my head clear (plays too much chicken, you talk to a girl I'm going to flirt with a guy type stuff)

So any advice?

Thanks.
Author:  mPUA Savior [ Tue Dec 11, 2012 11:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 8.5 neighbor in college WOW
My opinion just ignore her, not completly but dont give her much attention and go about your buisness. You say guys fall into her trap all the time wanting her and she dumps em. Sounds to me you should of been playing her card and turned her game around on her. You say if you hit on girls she'd hit on guys. Should of not gave a shit and just did what you wanted and shit probably talked about girls right in front of her. Treated her like a friend. i can almost guarentee that since you like her your body language and the way you talked to her changed. it was no more cocky funny, bust her balls but probably a more seeking approval mixed in with some so so cocky funny if that
Author:  sketchspace [ Wed Dec 12, 2012 12:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 8.5 neighbor in college WOW
Quote:
Now when I confronted her about it like we had a talk about it and I said I kind of liked her because she was straying off me, and she said she kind of did too but didn't want anything right now and I understood I told her i didn't want a relationship neither right now, but as for sex she doesn't want to have sex anymore and now doesn't even talk to me anymore. Makes me seem almost like pathetic, she's in our inner circle of friends and everyone knows she's known for heart breaking guys.. so makes me feel dumb for falling for her a bit..

GOAL: I want her to kind of like me again, have sex with her a few more times, and move on. She is not exactly gf material and I realized that now after getting my head clear (plays too much chicken, you talk to a girl I'm going to flirt with a guy type stuff)
Your goal doesn't fit with her goal, move on.
Author:  pro-di-gy [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 7:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 8.5 neighbor in college WOW
So I took the advice kind of just left her alone over the break and we ended it off in good terms and we wer back to normal friends, over the break though she was texting me how she wanted to have sex with me and all these things and that she was horny so when we get back to school she wants to have sex with me... I just got back and she doesn't come back until a few days from now because i heard she has this date with some random drug dealer guy a few hours away?

what does this chick even want (i don't have oneitus with her anymore) but as bad at it sounds and I would never usually want this but our mutual friend keeps saying "i told you so" meaning "i told you she is going to like another guy" and its annoying me so I want her to "like" me and then we prob. will have sex a few more times, but no chance that i'll make her my gf or anything. class A slut and insecure

any advice? thanks in advance.
Author:  Pickwick [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 7:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 8.5 neighbor in college WOW
You say she has a decent personality but are critical of her for being "insecure" and a "slut". Since she rejected you, you want to fuck her a couple of times to feed your ego? You said you're over her, just drop it. If she's saying she wants to have sex, then do whatever floats your boat. Trying to fuck a girl that rejected you just to fix your ego isn't too respectful of yourself. I don't know which one out of you is more insecure.
Author:  GKS [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 3:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 8.5 neighbor in college WOW
Sounds like she was just lonely after the breakup and wanted sex. That was about it. Don't read too far into it. She was clearly trying to avoid you after the sex. If a women wants a relationship with you, trust me she will make sure you take the hints.

Move on. Game other chicks and keep this one as fuck buddy. Assume that you gave her one hell of a night of wild sex, not 30 seconds pumping.
Author:  pro-di-gy [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 8:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 8.5 neighbor in college WOW
cool thanks guys, yah she just texted me to come over to have sex with her again today, so it's the second time we had sex.. looks like it's fuk buddy status.. there wasn't anything emotional this time really, no idea whats gonna happen now, after it happened i said i was hungry and was gonna get food and not spend the night.

I feel like she was kind of hinting she didn't want me to stay either, since we have a lot of mutual friends i kind of just chuckled and said don't tell anyone, and said bye and that's it.
Author:  Booty Book [ Thu Jan 03, 2013 4:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 8.5 neighbor in college WOW
Seems like you played your cards right, the issue at this point is she knows you and the ignoring her game just wont work anymore. Obviously giving her to much attention isn't worth it either. You can try to reset things by disappearing for a bit then returning. Maybe you can get the occasional booty call in. But just ask yourself if it gets to become to much work is it worth it?
Author:  pro-di-gy [ Tue Jan 08, 2013 5:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 8.5 neighbor in college WOW
yah we have the same group of friends that we all hang out with, she's DEF not girlfriend material and I have clearly realized that now, so we got in a bit of an argument when we were kind of drunk and she called me annoying the next day and she didn't really want to talk about it the next day so the second she said that i didn't even reply to that text and have vanished for a couple days.. I'm bound to run into her again but yah you're right, NOT worth it, I could probably get her again, but yah not worth it, she's pretty much bad news anyways..

Thanks
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