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Author:  Moe [ Wed Dec 13, 2006 9:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Openers, getting the conversation rolling
So this is the newbie section. And I think that its important that we dont keep any secrets in here. We are all PUA's with the same goal, and thats to attract the worlds most beautiful women. So I think we should share some openers. If you have any openers that you like to use and get a good response out of, THAN POST THAT SHIT!
Author:  theslackpack [ Thu Dec 14, 2006 12:37 am ]
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its strange you posted this, i was just about to ask the same question.

the opener i always use is the jealous girlfriend opener. it never fails to work, however because i have no other canned material i tend to have to rely on improvisational matter. i could do with more canned goods.

so if you have openers that arnt "do spells work" and "do men lie more" id love to hear them.

i would like to string a few openers together in my game. at the moment i only have the one, albeit very tryed and trusted.
what would work well after jealous gf opener?

hit em out guys, i wana c what ya got. theres got too be more than what ive been hearing lately.

thankyou - gonzocharlie
Author:  Markus Dan [ Thu Dec 14, 2006 7:00 pm ]
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stringing openerst together is actually a VERY good idea. at first you use an opener you know that works. so youre IN. then you cut the first opener and start with the second, so 5 seconds and you got your first open loop !

now see if the second opener gets you somewhere in the first 3 seconds. if not stackt the next one. if you do this regularely youll find that this has manyadvantages. its like you throw three openers and tell her "pick one". youll instantly know that she likes this one or that one best.

second, you TRY some more openers on your targets at once. how many 9,5 do you meet every day ? so use the chance and improve your game, whit playing it advanced.

and third you create open loops, wich you can close later. (hope you know how to close loops without looking boring!) and you set callback anchors at the same time, so if you call her or meet her later you can get back to a topic she really wants to hear more about. (well if you noticed she doesnt care about elvis, talk about something else.)

and if she flakes, shell ask herself "what did he mean with, this pink underwear thing ???"

regards, Markus
Author:  Markus Dan [ Thu Dec 14, 2006 7:08 pm ]
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so my first reply just raved about theslackpack´s idea of stacking openers. now id like to share some of my favourite techniques...

an opener has to be honest. youll notice, if you talk about a topic with your wing first, and then use it as an opener, it will work much better. so if its real it comes across as honest.

so what did i do ?

i just used the things that came to my mind, and then developed openers from that. theese were things like: hey, i really fucked up, i just missed a girl i wanted to meet, i was late, if you were that girl, what should i do that she istn too upset ?

well the situation was real at this time...

-now, with that opener you first ask her for advice, so its nothing shell answer yes or no to.

-its an open loop, because she wants to know what happened.

-you show that there are other girls around you

-its roleplaying

- and this is the best: shell think about and tells you what YOU SHOULD DO TO GET HER !!

hey, thats all for now, go out and try it until i tell you more of that stuff :-)

regards, Markus
Author:  Moe [ Fri Dec 15, 2006 9:50 pm ]
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Sometimes an opener or a canned phrase isn't the best. Use the 3 second rule approach immediately, and say the first thing that comes to mind? That's pretty advanced and I think that eventually just comes with practice. If your not out practing you're not going to get any better.
But here's a list of openers and negs that I use all the time.

Your eyes are so beautiful! Too bad they're too close together.

You have such a familiar face? I think I know your mom. (don't forget to smile)

Your nose wiggles when you.......(fill in the rest on your own)

I dont know... a lot of my things aren't canned its more improvised, but ive used these a lot.
Author:  bigtrouble [ Fri Jan 05, 2007 5:35 am ]
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while reading through these the pink panty one got me thinking about what my friend told me awhile ago, he said that women where different colored underwear for their expectations of that day, i don't remember what each one meant but this may work... maybe because it will increase the sexual tension... it probably won't work if you don't use the right tone and mannerisms... what are your opinions?
Author:  _Bear [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 1:07 pm ]
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I use my own opener.. The " Whats the worst pick up line ever used on you" So much stories to to tell, and that gets them talking and feeling comfortable.. You just go off that. Then you can use negs. Well, im not hittin on y'all so dont get your hopes up. A little DHV line i use
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