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Unopenable situation: HELP
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Author:  mohya [ Mon Dec 10, 2012 1:10 am ]
Post subject:  Unopenable situation: HELP
Ok so I know it's bad PUA manners to have long term crushes, but hear me out. An HB8/9 lives about 5 houses away from me and I've been wanting to open for some time. I happen to know one guy that goes to my school on the other side of the street (we're just acquaintances, we don't hang out) and he told me this girl's name. She lives on the other side of the entrance to the neighborhood so there is virtually no reason to go in that general direction. My family isn't very "neighborly" so we only know the neighbors right next to us. I have almost no idea how to open her. However, an opportunity has risen. By coincidence, I have noticed that she sometimes walks out of the neighborhood on weekends (maybe to visit a friend or go to the nearby shopping center). I need to pass out flyers for my volleyball team fundraising event , so I was hoping that I could catch her outside her house that way. The biggest problem with this plan is that I'm planning too much! I feel like this should be spontaneous, not carefully measured, and I certainly don't want to be caught with the stalker-like persona about me.

She LOVES Taylor Swift. (I saw her facebook. yes I know, bad PUA-ing)
I have never used the direct opener (yet).
She does NOT go to my school
I'm a high school senior

How can I find an approach opportunity?
Should I be making my own opportunity and how?
Should I facebook friend her and try online game?

Thanks all
-mohya
Author:  TrippAdvice [ Mon Dec 10, 2012 4:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Unopenable situation: HELP
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Ok so I know it's bad PUA manners to have long term crushes
I don't know where this stems from but stop this immediately! There are no "rules" You can do whatever you want. if you fall for a girl then that's fine. Just make sure that you don't fall for the wrong girl or stop working on your social skills once you find her. And most importantly if you find out she's not interested then you MUST move on.
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How can I find an approach opportunity?
Should I be making my own opportunity and how?
Should I facebook friend her and try online game?
I wouldn't use online game for this. Try and find her when she is out and about, like you said, on the weekends. Approach her and just say, "Hey you're my neighbor right? I don't think we've ever truly met". That's your opener and it will work just fine. From there on out get to know her, flirt with her and start building rapport. The important thing to remember in this situation is not to obsess or just focus on her too much. You're a high school senior so it's important you continue to build your social skills and get better at approaching, socializing and flirting. These will be very important tools for you in the future. Good luck!
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