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Author:  Scarypm [ Sun Dec 09, 2012 10:43 am ]
Post subject:  Bit confused about being Friendzoned!!
Hey guys!!

Just want some advice about a girl I dated (only 2 dates)

Basically been on 2 dates with a girl and on the second date it got quite physical... heavy make out session and she had her hands all over me etc which I took as a big I.O.I obv.

Text her for few days and was going really well but shes now friendzoned me cause im not her type (rough and ready- looks wise)

My question is she wants to genuinely be friends and hang out regularly she said but I don't understand why....
We met on Plenty of fish, only went out twice so why would it be a big deal to carry on being friends...

Like when I said thats fiine she replied with
Thank you so much

Just dont get it

Thanks
Author:  KimPa [ Sun Dec 09, 2012 12:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bit confused about being Friendzoned!!
Few options here..Either she was dating another guy and she found he is more compatible with her than you. Or she got back with her ex.. etc.. What you should is just drop it off.. Either lovers or nothing. Give value for yourself! Good job saying :" That's fine" and not being reactive! She might come back, but you got to ask yourself.. Are you a fucken man or a little yorkshire puppy? :)
Author:  Scarypm [ Sun Dec 09, 2012 3:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bit confused about being Friendzoned!!
Im not bothered about being friends or anything and im not pining after her or anything... after all it was only 2 dates.

Was just curious to why it meant alot to her to be friends.

Shes still been texting me but ive obv put in alot less effort which seems to be making her text me more lol
Author:  Warmth [ Sun Dec 09, 2012 3:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bit confused about being Friendzoned!!
Quote:
Im not bothered about being friends or anything and im not pining after her or anything... after all it was only 2 dates.

Was just curious to why it meant alot to her to be friends.

Shes still been texting me but ive obv put in alot less effort which seems to be making her text me more lol
Haha classic behavior of her to chase you when you show that you don´t need her.

You still have a chance of getting her if you try.
Author:  Scarypm [ Wed Dec 12, 2012 12:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bit confused about being Friendzoned!!
Any tips on how to turn this around?

If she stops texting me should I text her or leave it?

Kind of want to think of it as practise rather than just letting it go...
Author:  drugtest [ Wed Dec 12, 2012 1:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bit confused about being Friendzoned!!
Quote:
Any tips on how to turn this around?

If she stops texting me should I text her or leave it?

Kind of want to think of it as practise rather than just letting it go...
you should be the one who stop texting and if she wants you she will text you first
Author:  puaninja [ Wed Dec 12, 2012 2:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Bit confused about being Friendzoned!!
She either has done better for herself with another guy, or she thinks she can do better with another guy in the future.

Also, and I'm being completely serious here, did you make sure to gargle before the date and chew some gum before/during your makeout session? This is very important. A lot of guys don't realize they are screwing this up, and the girl won't always tell you that your breath stinks. But that can be such a turn off that when they think about it after the date they lose all interest in getting physical with you in the future.
Author:  Rough Operator [ Thu Dec 13, 2012 1:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Bit confused about being Friendzoned!!
Could be a touch of buyer's remorse.

I think you could still get this girl though, pay attention to what they do, not what they say. I've had sex with a "friend" before.
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