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| Author: | smashthecrash [ Sun Dec 09, 2012 5:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need help with f-close (text in progress respond ASAP) |
Alright, so I had a big party at my apartment last night, and ensnared this HB7. K-closed several times, I had her following me around, she wrote her number on my arm, got her alone and escalated easily etc... but at the end of the night her (female) friend blocked her from staying. I texted her after she left, but it was soon clear she was staying put though I can tell she wants more. See, it's been a LONG time since I recruited an FB this way and wondering how to proceed. This is just a young (20y/o) party chick and just want to f-close. I could probably wait until next weekend, have another party and do it then but I'd rather not wait. The only idea I have right now is the "come over and watch this movie" front late at night and get right to business. Texting her right now as I type this: Me (1153) What tastes better than sex on the beach? (callback humor from party) Her: Lol im not sure malibu baybreezes Me: Sex on the bed. No sand in your mouth Her: Lol ur silly Her: Sooo wat r u up 2? Me: Nm my friend just left, what you doin Her: Nm building a fort haha with my friends cause their dumb lol Me: Haha I bet that's way more fun then trying to seduce me Her: Lol yikes im not sure about that Me: Yeah ur not doing a very good job at that tonight haha Her: Ohhhh my bad ill have to practice haha Me: Well you'd better come soon before I find something else to do, if you do good you can make me breakfast miss culinary Her: Ur silly I can't just come over hah and u kno just cause im in culinary that doesn't mean im a good cook lol I figured this was a good point to make the topic, since she just said no I'm not going to respond just yet. A few scenarios play out here I'd like advice on: 1) I respond - but I'm not sure what to respond with that would get her over here. I'm just sitting by myself for the night, on call for my ambulance company. My best idea so far is "Well I'd say come over when you're done playing with your friends but you'll prob be too wastie pants by then to seduce me anyways 2) I don't respond, and she texts later tonight (big IOI) - should I be available at that point? 3) Conversation ends indefinitely. Keep in mind, I'm ONLY interested in an FB here... trying to avoid any shit like day 2's day game, date-type stuff, etc, I've got a lot of school work over the next few days to do anyways. Not to mention, she might be leaving for break before next weekend so I may not even get the chance to close at the next party. Break is 5 weeks long, so I'd really like to close before then to make the FB transition easier when she comes back. |
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| Author: | smashthecrash [ Sun Dec 09, 2012 6:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help with f-close (text in progress respond ASAP) |
Alright, 90 minutes after the first text (now 2am) I sent "Sure you can just come over haha don't be lame (her name)" but no response. Oh well. Still could use advice on the OP, regardless. If you're read my other topic about my ex and the AMOG, you'd see how bad I could use an FB right now. And also how easily I could blow it, since my ex basically raped my self-esteem and game. |
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| Author: | smashthecrash [ Sun Dec 09, 2012 11:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help with f-close (text in progress respond ASAP) |
At 1131 this morning she texted me "Aww but I am" and I never responded. At 6pm today she texted "Hey r u doing anything 2morrow?" but I still haven't responded back yet. Was gonna freeze a little bit since she didn't come over last night, plus I told her I'd be busy after last night. Any advice how to play this one? I've definitely got her interest, as noted by the 6pm text, just wondering if the typical "come over for a movie/food/blahblah" is good enough. It's usually kinda boring, but that's only to girls I haven't gotten their interest yet. Gimme some feedback! |
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| Author: | smashthecrash [ Mon Dec 10, 2012 5:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help with f-close (text in progress respond ASAP) |
Eh, may as well close the topic. After I messaged her back a few hours later, she tried inviting me to do something with her friends tomorrow, and I eventually made her coming over afterwards (for a movie, no less) a condition of that. No need for specifics, apparently my game is still good enough here. Still wouldn't mind some general advice on how to keep a girl like this in FB status without giving false hope that I'll be her boyfriend, which is the vibe I got from her wanting me to hang out with her friends. I've already got my "why I don't want a relationship" speech pretty down, for the event of any girl. Like I said, it's been a long time (over 7 months) since I sought a girl for sex and only sex. After getting dumped from what I thought would have been an ideal relationship, I kept trying to replace that. After banging that ex for a few months and realizing just how crazy she is, I'm done seeking LTR's and just want to have fun like I used to. |
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| Author: | VietnameseProdigy [ Mon Dec 10, 2012 6:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help with f-close (text in progress respond ASAP) |
your text game is awesome brah, just gotta work on your meeting up/inviting line, everything else is solid |
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| Author: | smashthecrash [ Mon Dec 10, 2012 6:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help with f-close (text in progress respond ASAP) |
Thanks VP. I've grown to appreciate text game, for it's ability to build rapport/comfort AFTER attraction has been established. I just hate it before attraction/interest is established. But once you've got some callback humor and conversation topics, it's really easy to lead almost anything into a meet up or talking about sex. Plus, I'm finding that the younger females are these days, the more they talk over text. Go with the flow, I suppose. I swear though, if I get one more "what are we" conversation started by text I'm gonna flip. It's a lot easier to convince a girl to continue FWB in person, when you're got so many more tools than a damn cellphone at your disposal... |
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