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Author:  afcme123 [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 3:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Lied about moving?? umm WTF?
I have posted about this girl before
girl-friend-zoned-me-now-she-is-mad-i-w ... 51333.html

She friend zoned me so I haven't been making myself as available to her as much I did when we first started talking (before the friend zone)

Yesterday Was my friends B-day, and I had plans to go out with him. Before I went out I texted her (I haven't heard from her in a while, I was just wanting to say hi)

Here is how the convo went.

ME: I can show you the world :) (we watched Alladin the other day and I Like the song.. lol)
HER: What are you doing?
ME: Grabbing food.
HER: Almost off Wana hang?
ME: Cant tonight, but we should make plans for sometime soon.
HER: Probably not Im moving back to (Insert Hometown) Friday.
ME: Seriously?!?!
HER: Yep.
ME: Call me when your off.
HER: No its cool you're busy.
ME: Your moving..
HER: Yeah
ME: Seriously?!?!?! Thats all you have to say!??!!?
HER: Well I'm constantly asking you to hang and you are always busy or dont feel like it so whatever.
ME: You are not always asking to hang out, and when you do I make time to hang out with you.
HER: Yeah tonight is a prime example of that.
ME: I didn't know you were moving. Call when your off, I want to talk to you.

(She calls and comes over to talk)
She said she did it to "prove a point"
She ends up going to my friends party with me and then when everyone went to the bar she told me she didn't wan a go. So I dropped her off at her car...When she left my car she didn't even say bye..
(I'm pretty sure she was pissed I didn't just want to hang with her..)

I have NO IDEA WTF is going on!!! any idea on why she would do that? Or why she would do something like that?!??!
Author:  TrippAdvice [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 4:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Lied about moving?? umm WTF?
Quote:
I have posted about this girl before
girl-friend-zoned-me-now-she-is-mad-i-w ... 51333.html

She friend zoned me so I haven't been making myself as available to her as much I did when we first started talking (before the friend zone)

Yesterday Was my friends B-day, and I had plans to go out with him. Before I went out I texted her (I haven't heard from her in a while, I was just wanting to say hi)

Here is how the convo went.

ME: I can show you the world :) (we watched Alladin the other day and I Like the song.. lol)
HER: What are you doing?
ME: Grabbing food.
HER: Almost off Wana hang?
ME: Cant tonight, but we should make plans for sometime soon.
HER: Probably not Im moving back to (Insert Hometown) Friday.
ME: Seriously?!?!
HER: Yep.
ME: Call me when your off.
HER: No its cool you're busy.
ME: Your moving..
HER: Yeah
ME: Seriously?!?!?! Thats all you have to say!??!!?
HER: Well I'm constantly asking you to hang and you are always busy or dont feel like it so whatever.
ME: You are not always asking to hang out, and when you do I make time to hang out with you.
HER: Yeah tonight is a prime example of that.
ME: I didn't know you were moving. Call when your off, I want to talk to you.

(She calls and comes over to talk)
She said she did it to "prove a point"
She ends up going to my friends party with me and then when everyone went to the bar she told me she didn't wan a go. So I dropped her off at her car...When she left my car she didn't even say bye..
(I'm pretty sure she was pissed I didn't just want to hang with her..)

I have NO IDEA WTF is going on!!! any idea on why she would do that? Or why she would do something like that?!??!
I'd love to help out with this question. Before I answer, how old is everyone?
Author:  afcme123 [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 4:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Lied about moving?? umm WTF?
i am 22 she is 19
(She moved in with some family over here, so when she said she was moving back I believed it because school was over and she has family in her home town)
Author:  TrippAdvice [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 4:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Lied about moving?? umm WTF?
Quote:
i am 22 she is 19
(She moved in with some family over here, so when she said she was moving back I believed it because school was over and she has family in her home town)
I never wanted to assume but this was exactly my guess. She is super immature. This is what you're dealing with. It's very hard to game immature girls because they are emotionally all over the place. Stop playing games with her and go direct. Let her know that the reason you were being distant is because you were into her and you thought it would be better to give her space because you were moving on. Literally say that. Don't be all sappy about it or make it sad just say it exactly how it is and a casual tone. You have to give her the option to tell you whether or not she is interested back. No more games. Then push through from there. I highly suggest you try this.
Author:  Kopertyr [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 6:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Lied about moving?? umm WTF?
I was shocked by your information. Thank you! very interesting!
Author:  ItsAlwaysOn [ Thu Dec 06, 2012 4:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Lied about moving?? umm WTF?
jfc stop acting like an asshole around this girl. stop justifying yourself to her. stop responding to all her childish questions. stop playing her games. stop dealing with her drama and negative bullshit. just stop.

like somebody already told you in the previous thread (in which the advice given to you was good) girls that youre sleeping with get your time before her. which brings me to my next point. stop hanging out with her if shes not gonna sleep with you.

she ljbf'd you. thats fine. it happens to all of us occasionally. but she needs to be punished. stop rewarding her with your time and attention. unless you truly, legitimately wanna be friends with her. but you dont. you just want to fuck her. which is TOTALLY FINE. dont feel bad about that, it is what it is. and tbh, i can see exactly why you dont wanna be friends with her. she sounds awful.

if you have to just use that sexual predator routine thingy to let her know whats up. ive never used it before, but some guys around her mention it a lot so maybe it actually works.
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