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| Author: | nizzle [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 6:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | HB that I'm dating |
Hey guys, (my main language is not English so expect some grammar mistakes) First, I need to tell you that I'm new to this pickup thing. I used to approach some girls in clubs and stuff, but never I never approached alot and also never had too much succes with it. Since I got introduced to pickup I approach much more and have much more succes. And one of these succeses is this girl, seriously, she's a HB 9, if not higher. I first met her at a club, went for the kiss, she rejected (while laughing) saying I had a girlfriend (she knows a girl who I made out with 2 weeks before that moment) and saying she couldn't do it because she know my cousin. She laughed all the time and she was clearly shit testing me. I just went for the make out again and we did make out. Although she didn't fully go for it, if you know what I mean. Exchanged number, texted a bit but conversation ended up dead. I called her one time at 5:00 am (yes I had a few drinks), she obviously didn't pick up but she texted me the next day. So we texted and set up a date. We had a drink somewhere and we had a good conversation, and she laughed alot. But maybe it was just a conversation like every other guy would have had with her, so I need to work on that. Also didn't kino alot. Only hug and 3 kisses at the beginning and a hug at the end, I slightly went for the make out but she went for the hug. Texted a bit more and conversation eventually stopped. That thursday I went out and she was there too. She was talking with a guy I think but I just went up to her, we talked and moved away for a bit. I took her away somewhere further and we made out. This time it was better, and also, she had a smile on her face the whole time. She went to the bathroom and said she would come back, but didn't, so I just went back to my friends. Later I see her walking right in front of me and I said something about how she didn't come back, just joking about it but I in a way she would respond. She said she was with her friends and said ''text me tomorrow''. After some texting we set up a second date. But the problem for me is that she never starts texting, I need to start. For example, now we've set up a date, but we don't really text. How should I handle this? Just text her a day before the date, for the time and place to meet, because I don't want her to think that I'm needy or something. Also, what do you guys recommend for a second date? Like I said, first date we had a drink somewhere, but I don't want to do that again. Something like going to an arcade? I know that she loves going to the casino, would that be an option? And in general, what do you think about this girl? Does she seem interested, or is she just ''playing'' me? Any other tips for me? I just want to know this so I can get better at all of this and do things better in the future. |
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| Author: | Fly_Swatter [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 7:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HB that I'm dating |
First date I usually like to show I'm fun so I take the girl out for coffee and then drinks where I can escalate. Second date I usually like to show I'm a man so I take her out on a real date (dinner). Your problem is that you didn't escalate on your first date. But that's okay, she knows you're fun. Take her out to dinner to show you're a man, then for drinks where you NEED to escalate by touching her more regularly. As for her not texting you first, it can mean a couple of things. 1) She's not TOO interested, but we know there's a certain level of interest on her part, 2) she's the kind of girl that just likes to get chased or 3) she's just using you for attention. Eitherway, I've learned to avoid girls that don't at the very least balance out texting. |
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| Author: | nizzle [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 8:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HB that I'm dating |
Quote: First date I usually like to show I'm fun so I take the girl out for coffee and then drinks where I can escalate.
Yea, I always start texting, but when I text she responds good and as much as I do. And when I ask for the date she always respond very positive. Hm oke, I might change plans with her and tell we can have dinner. Thanks!Second date I usually like to show I'm a man so I take her out on a real date (dinner). Your problem is that you didn't escalate on your first date. But that's okay, she knows you're fun. Take her out to dinner to show you're a man, then for drinks where you NEED to escalate by touching her more regularly. As for her not texting you first, it can mean a couple of things. 1) She's not TOO interested, but we know there's a certain level of interest on her part, 2) she's the kind of girl that just likes to get chased or 3) she's just using you for attention. Eitherway, I've learned to avoid girls that don't at the very least balance out texting. Anyone else with some tips for me? |
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