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As Wesker would say: "Move it along."

With other words: You Move On.

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As Wesker would say: "Move it along."

With other words: You Move On.

Why do you say to move on as opposed to providing strategies to foster the relationship?

If she's insecure leave her. Then come back to her. Then leave her. Then come back to her. Tell her she's fat. Leave her. Apologize. Come back to her.

She won't have trust issues anymore I promise

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As Wesker would say: "Move it along."

With other words: You Move On.

Why do you say to move on as opposed to providing strategies to foster the relationship?

This is why:

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It's my personal belief that you shouldn't try to fix a girl's problems but instead be there to support her so long as it doesn't end up hurting yourself.

In your case give her reasons to trust you, ie stick to your word, do small things for her, etc. However, if things get too bad where she's more than you can handle, let her know respectfully and be on your way. Be especially careful since people who have been deceived in the past will use their past experiences to justify anything they do wrong in the present; you just have to put your foot down and not tolerate that.

Author:	exclusiveme [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 8:45 am ]
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How do you deal with a girl who's insecure and has trust issues? Constantly thinks you're unfaithful.

Author:	Mr. Marville [ Tue Dec 04, 2012 9:24 am ]
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As Wesker would say: "Move it along." With other words: You Move On.

Author:	exclusiveme [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 5:19 am ]
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Quote: As Wesker would say: "Move it along." With other words: You Move On. Why do you say to move on as opposed to providing strategies to foster the relationship?

Author:	pussyfucker69 [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 7:35 am ]
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If she's insecure leave her. Then come back to her. Then leave her. Then come back to her. Tell her she's fat. Leave her. Apologize. Come back to her. She won't have trust issues anymore I promise

Author:	Mr. Marville [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 10:30 am ]
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Quote: Quote: As Wesker would say: "Move it along." With other words: You Move On. Why do you say to move on as opposed to providing strategies to foster the relationship? This is why: shy-classmate-and-when-ask-her-out-vt152012.html

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Author:	exclusiveme [ Thu Dec 06, 2012 1:20 am ]
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Quote: If she's insecure leave her. Then come back to her. Then leave her. Then come back to her. Tell her she's fat. Leave her. Apologize. Come back to her. She won't have trust issues anymore I promise This doesn't even make sense. If she is already insecure, you think that by making her more insecure, she will be more secure around you. Interesting proposition.

Author:	exclusiveme [ Thu Dec 06, 2012 1:23 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: As Wesker would say: "Move it along." With other words: You Move On. Why do you say to move on as opposed to providing strategies to foster the relationship? This is why: shy-classmate-and-when-ask-her-out-vt152012.html Thank you. I got a chance to read the thread, but I have to disagree with the reponses because it is making alot of assumptions. The response assumes he understands the girl and how she will be like when he doesn't even know her. I know some shy girls who are shy but confident in their beliefs and are emotionally stable. I don't know if I trust the response. For me, this girl I'm dealing with has trust issues, possibly due to negative events in the past, but it doesn't necessarily mean I can't learn to be the right person for her.

Author:	sketchspace [ Thu Dec 06, 2012 5:30 am ]
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It's my personal belief that you shouldn't try to fix a girl's problems but instead be there to support her so long as it doesn't end up hurting yourself. In your case give her reasons to trust you, ie stick to your word, do small things for her, etc. However, if things get too bad where she's more than you can handle, let her know respectfully and be on your way. Be especially careful since people who have been deceived in the past will use their past experiences to justify anything they do wrong in the present; you just have to put your foot down and not tolerate that.

Author:	exclusiveme [ Thu Dec 06, 2012 6:03 am ]
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Quote: It's my personal belief that you shouldn't try to fix a girl's problems but instead be there to support her so long as it doesn't end up hurting yourself. In your case give her reasons to trust you, ie stick to your word, do small things for her, etc. However, if things get too bad where she's more than you can handle, let her know respectfully and be on your way. Be especially careful since people who have been deceived in the past will use their past experiences to justify anything they do wrong in the present; you just have to put your foot down and not tolerate that. Got ya. Thanks. I'll try to do what I can to build reassuring trust with her and be true to my words. If it becomes too much than I can handle and it's hurting me, then I will let her know.

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