I've been gaming an HB9.5 pretty well over the last 2 weeks. She threw a bunch of shit tests at me and I had no problem going around them. For instance, when she said we could only be friends I was like "sure whatever I don't care." When she started teasing me, I proceeded to troll her for 3 straight hours and put her back in her place. She's admitted to liking me, to being attracted to me, and finding me sexy. She's also the one who texts me first everyday. We haven't had sex yet but it's imminent since she grabs my ass and rubs my crotch. But I just build the tension even more by preventing her from going any further.

But last night she was being a little weird. She messaged me saying "Do you plan on ignoring me any longer? " And said I should have texted her to thank her for inviting me out with her friends. So I played it cool and said I was just expecting us to talk about it that night, and that her friends are cool etc. Still behaving a little off, I tried reassuring her by admitting I have feelings for her, and that I spent the day thinking of her. Instead, she gave me nothing in return -- no "I like you" or anything. She just asked "what if we don't work out [after our planned road-trip this coming weekend]?" When I asked if she's concerned I'll lose interest in her, or if she'll lose interest in me, she wouldn't answer. I'm assuming she's concerned she'll lose interest in me, perhaps because I've been over-investing in her emotionally (especially that night).

Hindsight being 20/20, I should have just replied "then we can still be friends." Too late. My plan of attack is to sit back, assume we ARE friends, not ever bring up last night's conversation until she does, and when she does to simply say "it's whatever, we're just friends and we probably won't work out as more than that." I also sort of promised I'd text her first today... So I will, but I won't reply to her text until 2-3 hours later.

Thoughts?

Alright so last night she brought up the conversation we had had the previous night. I flat out responded we probably won't ever be in a relationship and that I don't care. Although initially shocked I would say such a thing, she didn't buy it and retorted that my actions have been speaking otherwise. After a bit more bullshitting, she admitted she was confused as to what I wanted. The rest of the night throughout our conversations, she "teased" me about not wanting a relationship with her. I figured she just wanted me to correct her and say she's wrong. But I didn't bite... I'd just ignore her. She also said she wanted a man, not a boy, and she wouldn't be with someone who wouldn't be convinced he wanted to be with her. Again, I didn't bite. Instead, I retorted that I'm more manly than she thinks, that it's fine if she doesn't think so, and that my next girlfriend will know so.

Top that with being "mean" to her throughout the night, and the results are impressive. She went to bed quite a bit later than usual (I told her I had to eat to get her to go to bed actually), and this morning I get a random text from her saying she's thinking of me. Tapping myself on the back.

I never ignore or rebuff your advice Mr. Jablowme. I find it quite accurate and helpful in most cases, and funny...