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Author:  SGP [ Fri Nov 30, 2012 6:32 pm ]
Post subject:  First Date. She has a BF.

Hey guys,

Last weekend I #closed a very hot girl, who has agreed to come out on a date with me tomorrow evening. She's flirting with me by text, and hinting at getting intimate. However, she has told me she has a boyfriend already.

I'm planning on playing it cool through the date, and testing the water. Worst case scenario is she'll end up a friend, which is fine. If things start getting heavy, I'm planning on asking her where she's expecting it to go, as I don't want to ruin her relationship. I've been in a position where a woman has cheated on me, and it's not nice.

Ending on "this won't go any further unless you lose your man" doesn't sound like the best date; but it is the most honourable way!

WWYD PUA?

Author:  Versalis [ Fri Nov 30, 2012 6:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First Date. She has a BF.

She's not going to dump her boyfriend for some dude she doesn't even know. She cheats with you or she cheats with me. By all means, pass on her. I am always grateful for guys like you :)

Author:  puaninja [ Fri Nov 30, 2012 7:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: First Date. She has a BF.

Just proceed as you normally would and don't mention her bore-friend. When I had girls I actually cared about, I LOVED hearing them tell me about guys hitting on them continually even after she told them we were together. Because I knew it tested our relationship and that she really cared about me.

Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sat Dec 01, 2012 11:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: First Date. She has a BF.

this is very honorable of you. All you will get to do is lay her and that is it or she will just dimiss you as not a sexual adventure and stick with her man. She will not dump him for you.. I have been in your position and was heavily attracting this one girl at my school. I found out she had a boyfriend by accident and decided to pass on her because I didn't want to go through the motions. I may have gotten the lay but it's one of those things that I don't do on a regular basis(i would still lay one, just not my favorite thing to do).

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