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| Author: | vrmca [ Fri Nov 23, 2012 3:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Girl says things are not clicking! |
I talked to this girl couple of times and bedded her few times as well. I thought we were heading towards LTR. I had made my intentions clear to her. During my last conversation with her, she was wondering why I do not drink, while every other guy from my age does. In addition, she said she likes her drink. After the last meeting she started avoiding me. After the last meeting, I sent her a text message next day asking her Facebook id, she choose not to respond. After few days, I sent another message, asking her why she did not respond to my previous message. She responded back saying she is busy and would email when free. I never heard from her again. After a gap of 2-weeks, I sent her another message with a joke. She responded back saying she would get back to me after 2-weeks. She got back to me after 2-weeks saying "things are not clicking, so that means we are not right for each other". I responded back saying "That's fine, No biggies, All the best". Of course, I was devastated. So my question is, where did i make mistake or what could I have done differently? Should i have texted her or did any of my text message made me look needy? Thanks for your response! |
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| Author: | Fly_Swatter [ Fri Nov 23, 2012 4:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl says things are not clicking! |
Ummm... Just by insisting on contacting her multiple times when she was avoiding you, I can tell you were probably too needy when you were with her. You invested too much emotionally and showed your cards early on. Always let a girl tell you how she feels first. Once she shows a card, you can respond by showing her a card of equal value, but lesser value ideally to keep her wanting more. It doesn't matter that you don't drink... That can actually be turned around to be a plus. Many athletes don't consume alcohol, think of it that way. So you can still be a dominant male and not do things guys your age typically do. And for the record, if a girl ignores your text, you should rarely follow up with another text... Depending on the situation. So if I were you, I'd have avoided her much much much earlier. And did you actually take her seriously when she told you she'd get back to you in 2 weeks? She was trolling you hard bro. Have a little respect for yourself. |
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