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| Author: | Stig34 [ Thu Nov 22, 2012 6:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Her initiating contact after 2 weeks... |
I've asked about this girl before and this is a bit of a follow up question. We met and their was chemistry and we started texting and the texting was pretty hot and heavy on both are parts. Most of our interactions where through text, something she attributed to her low self esteem and was weird to me as I'm not really a texter. I felt like she was controlling the situation(because she was) as everything was on her terms. The way we contacted each other and it was all about her availability not mine. We had our first date and I took control, it made her very uneasy but she let me control it. We kissed we fondled each other she moaned and even scratched at me slightly all in all I thought it went well. How ever I noticed that after that her texting cooled off. She still texted me all day, but I was flirting and essentially not getting the same amount back. She was mostly complaining about her situation(she was losing her apartment in 10 days and hadn't found a new place). I confronted her about it in a call(a big mistake as that showed how invested I was and had to come off as needy) and she apologized and said it was the situation and that after she was settled she'd be able to give me more attention. Her texts got more distant she'd initiate but started one word answering me and I felt like she was using me as something just to make her feel better with no consideration to me or my feelings. So I invested in other girls and my texting back got very sparse to her. She voiced her frustration tried calling me which I ignored and asked what she had done. I eventually answered(about 4 days later) saying she did nothing wrong and that I was just busy. She didn't respond or text me for about 2 weeks after that. Now she texted me to wish me a Happy Thanksgiving so I returned the message adding I hope her and her kids have a good one as well. To which she replied she won't be with them but they'll have an awesome day. And then proceeded to ask me if I'd be with my kids this Thanksgiving. Now I feel like she's fishing for me to ask why and perhaps start communication between us again with that text. My question is what do you guys think and what should I do? Should I show concern and ask why she's not going to be with her kids or should I ignore it and send her a casual text later without mentioning it. Any help would be greatly appreciated as this girl still gets me frazzled despite the fact that I've got 4 other potentials on the line. Matter of fact my next 2 weeks are full up entertaining the other 4. Still because she went cold on me I tend to over analyze things with her and could use the help. Thanks in advance! |
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