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Author:  Hustle_23 [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 6:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Good Looking Wing
Unfortunately most of my buddies are either complete AFC's with no goal of improving or in LTR's and thus do not make good wings. However, I have one buddy who is usually up for sarging. The only problem is he's a good looking dude (not that this is bad, but it just makes my job tougher).

How do you guys deal with wings that are better looking than you? Any techniques/advice? This isn't a big deal, as I feel this is more of a positive challenge than a negative thing. Ultimately, good game beats good looks.

Thanks for the feedback.
Author:  pumpington [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 6:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Good Looking Wing
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Unfortunately most of my buddies are either complete AFC's with no goal of improving or in LTR's and thus do not make good wings. However, I have one buddy who is usually up for sarging. The only problem is he's a good looking dude (not that this is bad, but it just makes my job tougher).
not a problem at all, in fact, this is a huge benefit
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How do you guys deal with wings that are better looking than you? Any techniques/advice? This isn't a big deal, as I feel this is more of a positive challenge than a negative thing. Ultimately, good game beats good looks.

Thanks for the feedback.
just don't worry about him, pay attention to the girls you are interested in, not your wing, if anything do everything you can to get your buddies laid, be a good wingman, talk him up, help him out, work together to get girls, if he has isolation and has some girl into him, leave him be, if you see some girl or guy trying to get aggressive or negative with him or run a cock block, run block on the block, if it seems like he enters a group and you can tell through body language they are losing interest or attention in what he is saying, give him attention and make him look good, if you both split off and are opening alone and you have a obstacles to deal with, try to bring the group with you and introduce them to your friend, include him so he can take a girl off your hands

continue doing this and eventually he might catch on to what good wingmanship is and help you out, you guys can become devastating together, and his good looks do nothing but benefit the both of you, it's just more value for a group of girls to consider when they are talking to the two of you

if he has weaknesses, you can make up for them, he stalls and is somewhat shy or doesn't have that amazing sense of humour and quick wit, you can pickup the slack, both of you work together to keep it going

you can use his strengths too, use him as bait, when you are engaged in a girl, introduce her friends to your friend as chick bait and get them focused on him so you can isolate the girl you like

it works good too if you are both roomates or sleeping at the same spot, you can try to bring a girl and her friend home and if one wants to really hook up with your friend, there is more peer pressure on her friend to leave with her friend and come too, this in it's self can get you laid, don't worry about out doing him, or putting him down, or trying to make him look bad so you look good, try to make the two of you as attractive to the girls as possible and get the girls as a team
Author:  puaninja [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 7:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Good Looking Wing
Remember, he is your WING, not your friend. He's not your designated driver. He's not your little brother. His SOLE job is to wing you, which means he is there to help YOU pick up women. He could be butt ugly and his job is still the same. He could be David Beckham and his role is still the same--to help you get women.

You actually want your wing to be better looking than you, to be quite honest. He'll attract more women. And you know he's not going to bang all of them, so it leaves a lot for you pick from.

If for some reason you found that he was hogging all the attention and the sets were ignoring you and being drawn to him, that's when you pull him aside and have a little chat. Since he's your wing he'll work with you and start throwing women your way if at all possible. If he doesn't, then he's a shitty wing and he's not doing it right.

All my wings know the deal and I have no problems telling them what I expect out of them. If they fuck up, I tell them about it. And vice versa of course. When you agree to wing someone you are basically putting their needs in front of yours. Ideally it will be a mutual relationship which works out awesomely. But its better to have the mentality that you are there to wing the other guy and help him out, that way selfishness doesn't cause you to fuck up the other guy's game.
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