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Author:  chinoko [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 11:22 am ]
Post subject:  Put yourself in these shoes. What are your opinions?

Alright, there are girls that like white dudes, there are girls that like black dudes and there are girls that like mexican dudes. Think about this for a second. What girls like asian dudes? I've encountered soo many asian girls that are against doing anything or being seen with asian dudes. Even if you're black and poor, for example, you can pull alot of bitches because look at all the black celebs and athletes.

Asian guys are invisible in the u.s.

Hollywood portrays us as nerdy, gamer, kung funmasters. Look at the asian guy in the hangover movies...
Sorry I'm probably just venting, but what do you guys think of this? East and south asians

Author:  puaninja [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 12:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Put yourself in these shoes. What are your opinions?

I agree. It's because asians are usually really short and have funny accents and whatnot. I won't even mention the small dick stereotype. Those are all things which are not helping your cause. But I think it would help you pick up asian chicks. And some asian chicks are hot as fuck. So it's not all bad.

Author:  KimPa [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 12:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Put yourself in these shoes. What are your opinions?

No, I don't agree with you.. Once you take this idea out of your head you will start to succeed.. As long as you believe in this pathetic idea you won't.. Look at kong from simple pickup.. Perfect example that looks don't matter or where you come from.. When I was in London, I had a black wingman.. He used to pull more white girls than me.. But ofcourse his game was tight as fuck and he knew what he was doing..

Author:  Radar01 [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 1:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Put yourself in these shoes. What are your opinions?

A lot of it is in your head. You can't change your race, just continue to meet girls and escalate.

I am from London and I have Asian (oriental and south asian) friends who pull a lot...

Author:  Br3ezy [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 2:05 pm ]
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I am 100% asian. I like to think of all the negative asian stereotypes and then just avoid being them. Instead of every negative stereotype for asians, just think of all of those that every other asian is that you aren't....

asian>white = black

Author:  chinoko [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 7:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Put yourself in these shoes. What are your opinions?

I cane home really drunk and emotional last night-__-

But thanks for your 2 cents.

And I can pull a lott of asian girls, but I find them fake and not attractive.

I could pull other races, but you guys have no clue how much harder it is. I'm probably taking 2 times the more rejection I would than if I was another race.
If fuckin' Kong didn't exist, I would literally still have been limited with soooo many beliefs. But yeah Inposted this 'cause all the rejection got in my head bad. Thanks bruhss

Author:  Xeydo [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 7:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Put yourself in these shoes. What are your opinions?

It's all in your head.

Author:  pumpington [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 7:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Put yourself in these shoes. What are your opinions?

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Alright, there are girls that like white dudes, there are girls that like black dudes and there are girls that like mexican dudes. Think about this for a second. What girls like asian dudes? I've encountered soo many asian girls that are against doing anything or being seen with asian dudes. Even if you're black and poor, for example, you can pull alot of bitches because look at all the black celebs and athletes.

Asian guys are invisible in the u.s.

Hollywood portrays us as nerdy, gamer, kung funmasters. Look at the asian guy in the hangover movies...
Sorry I'm probably just venting, but what do you guys think of this? East and south asians
until you have done over 1000 approaches, you won't have a proper idea of what it is like

attention doesn't = laid

you can get girls, the vast majority of attractive girls are unavailable to pretty much any guy due to logistics, an asian guy with high status is going to do better then any guy with low status regardless of race, even the most ripped goodlooking guys with huge advantages can have trouble, it's not all sunshine and rainbows just cause you are 6ft tall, white and goodlooking, it merely gets you more opportunities, more approach invites, more compliance in general

either way, no matter what your ethnic background, what you look like, what you social status is, and how much wealth you have to project you will still have to talk to girls, and that is all it is, talking to girls, if one doesn't like you, you just go talk to a different girl, if she doesn't like you, a different girl, and so on and so on

eventually you will find girls you click with, there are girls out there that have a thing for asian guys, there are girls out there that have a thing for indian guys, there are girls out there that have a thing for black guys etc. etc.

it works the same way for guys, think about it, sure plenty of guys want to date white girls, and latino girls, but there are also plenty of guys who are into black girls, and indian girls and asian girls, it's all just a matter of personal taste

having this worry in your head will only hold you back, it's a limiting belief

there have only been two true naturals I have met in my life that have no association to the community, ironically one is a 42 year old asian guy, he's short, he's slightly chubby, he owns a business in a mall selling hamburgers and has a substance abuse problem, in terms of game, he is the most non-reactive person I have ever met... EVER, he is rude, obnoxious, shameless and hilarious and the only person in real life who I have ever asked for advice from besides the guy that introduced me to pua, he has an extreme sense of security to him that allows him to just meet people with no effort, it just seems like he is fearless and when I asked him he accredited it to drugs and experience and said he couldn't talk to girls until he was 27 and discovered drugs and after that he found out it didn't matter and he was just limited by his own fears, he more or less is the only person within my work space that has had multiple sexual harassment complaints and the weird thing is, all the complaints were from guys and when the issues were trying to be resolved every single last girl had nothing but good things to say about this guy (basically jealous guys making complaints about how he is)

everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and focusing on things that will limit you only serves to hold you back and create limitations that absolutely do not exist, sure sometimes social conditioning will prevent you from getting a specific girl, but if this is your problem you probably just don't quite understand it yet, there are girls everywhere, there is no point in getting hung up on one, there are BILLIONS all around you, and every girl subjectively values something different sexually from the next

your problem is the equivalent of not being good classically looking, will good looks open up more avenues for you and be a benefit for you? sure they will, but you don't need to be perfect to get girls, there are just too many girls out there, meet enough of them and become comfortable with yourself and secure in who you are and have some confidence, and the sky is the limit

Author:  KimPa [ Wed Nov 21, 2012 8:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Put yourself in these shoes. What are your opinions?

Quote:
Quote:
Alright, there are girls that like white dudes, there are girls that like black dudes and there are girls that like mexican dudes. Think about this for a second. What girls like asian dudes? I've encountered soo many asian girls that are against doing anything or being seen with asian dudes. Even if you're black and poor, for example, you can pull alot of bitches because look at all the black celebs and athletes.

Asian guys are invisible in the u.s.

Hollywood portrays us as nerdy, gamer, kung funmasters. Look at the asian guy in the hangover movies...
Sorry I'm probably just venting, but what do you guys think of this? East and south asians
until you have done over 1000 approaches, you won't have a proper idea of what it is like

attention doesn't = laid

you can get girls, the vast majority of attractive girls are unavailable to pretty much any guy due to logistics, an asian guy with high status is going to do better then any guy with low status regardless of race, even the most ripped goodlooking guys with huge advantages can have trouble, it's not all sunshine and rainbows just cause you are 6ft tall, white and goodlooking, it merely gets you more opportunities, more approach invites, more compliance in general

either way, no matter what your ethnic background, what you look like, what you social status is, and how much wealth you have to project you will still have to talk to girls, and that is all it is, talking to girls, if one doesn't like you, you just go talk to a different girl, if she doesn't like you, a different girl, and so on and so on

eventually you will find girls you click with, there are girls out there that have a thing for asian guys, there are girls out there that have a thing for indian guys, there are girls out there that have a thing for black guys etc. etc.

having this worry in your head will only hold you back, it's a limiting belief

there have only been two true naturals I have met in my life that have no association to the community, ironically one is a 42 year old asian guy, he's short, he's slightly chubby, he owns a business in a mall selling hamburgers and has a substance abuse problem, in terms of game, he is the most non-reactive person I have ever met... EVER, he is rude, obnoxious, shameless and hilarious and the only person in real life who I have ever asked for advice from besides the guy that introduced me to pua, he has an extreme sense of security to him that allows him to just meet people with no effort, it just seems like he is fearless and when I asked him he accredited it to drugs and experience and said he couldn't talk to girls until he was 27 and discovered drugs and after that he found out it didn't matter and he was just limited by his own fears, he more or less is the only person within my work space that has had multiple sexual harassment complaints and the weird thing is, all the complaints were from guys and when the issues were trying to be resolved every single last girl had nothing but good things to say about this guy (basically jealous guys making complaints about how he is)

everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and focusing on things that will limit you only serves to hold you back and create limitations that absolutely do not exist, sure sometimes social conditioning will prevent you from getting a specific girl, but if this is your problem you probably just don't quite understand it yet, there are girls everywhere, there is no point in getting hung up on one, there are BILLIONS all around you, and every girl subjectively values something different sexually from the next

your problem is the equivalent of not being good classically looking, will good looks open up more avenues for you and be a benefit for you? sure they will, but you don't need to be perfect to get girls, there are just too many girls out there, meet enough of them and become comfortable with yourself and secure in who you are and have some confidence, and the sky is the limit

Bravo, well said buddy.. I would like to add literally no one in this world gets all the girls.. Maybe the chances of a super alpha male to get chicks is higher than yours or mine but you can't get all the girls in the world. Chinoko, if you are basing your assumptions on the few approaches you have done, i would suggest you go out more and create an active lifestyle that would attract humans to you more.. Go out there and approach 100s of woman.. If you tried something for few days and it is just not working out for you then try something else that would fit your personality. There is no one way that fits all.. With experience you will figure this out. Good luck

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