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Author:  afcme123 [ Sat Nov 17, 2012 8:38 pm ]
Post subject:  How to say I'm moving on without being a dick.

I was friendzoned.. I decided not to run game on this girl and now I'm friend zoned lol..

I know she has some feelings for me, and she opens up to me more than anyone (I know i sound super AFC right now, but trust me on this guys) but I have decided Im moving on..

I just need suggestions on how to tell her I move on fast without slamming the door shut on the possibility of us ever dating..

I was thinking on texting her

"Hey, You have made it clear you just want a friend. Im fine with that, but I need to let you know that I move on fast. So you can't get mad when I go on a date."

"Hey, I know your just looking for a friend and thats fine with me, but you need to know I move on fast. So if your sure thats what you want to do, dont get mad when I go on a date"


Im not sure how to word this.. any tips?

Author:  DirtyOS [ Sun Nov 18, 2012 1:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to say I'm moving on without being a dick.

Simple: Don't do it.

If she put you in the friendzone, then you are naturally free to date other people, and need not explain yourself.

If you want to date other people without removing your chance with this girl, flip the table. Instead of telling
her that you're moving on, which kinda makes you a bit needy and is a strange thing to say to someone who is just a friend, you could casually bring up this new girl you met and hit it off with, her reaction will tell you everything you need to know.

If it is clear that she is disappointed with your new romantic interest, you can allways wait a while, and then talk about it not working out with girl2.

Author:  afcAL [ Sun Nov 18, 2012 1:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to say I'm moving on without being a dick.

DirtyOS is right. You are friends, stay that way. I'm curious if she is feeling "how to tell him I'm not interested in dating right now without slamming the door shut on the possibility of us ever dating."

We all been there. Sarge ahead. Find out what her face will look like when you introduce her to your girlfriend.

Al.

Author:  Versalis [ Sun Nov 18, 2012 9:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to say I'm moving on without being a dick.

Quote:
The Friendzone? I love the friendzone. It's my playground. If a girl is like "We should just be friends" I'm like "Cool. I'm still attracted to you, and I'm still going to try to fuck you every time we meet, but we can be friends :D"

Author:  afcme123 [ Tue Nov 20, 2012 3:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to say I'm moving on without being a dick.

Welll.. I ended up going on a date with a different girl..

The girl that friend zoned me tried to get me to see twilight with her.. but I said no..

And I let girl number 2 take me to the movies (to see twilight) Under 3 conditions.

1) She pay
2) She dressed sexy
3) She wore something black underneath it all ;)


I ended up tweeting "Supposed to go to atlanta today... Ended up being seduced into seeing twilight.. WTF?!?!"

Friend zone girl texted me

"Are you freaking kidding me?!?"

...I think I forgot to text my "Friend" back

lol

Author:  GKS [ Tue Nov 20, 2012 4:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to say I'm moving on without being a dick.

No need to say anything. If you're moving on, meaning you have no more interest in her. Why would you feel the need to declare that? It's almost as if that you're telling her "Okay, I'm not sure I can get over you so I'm saying this to remind myself that I need to" or "I know you'll never want me, but here's my last ditch effort in hope that you would take a pity and be so selfish to keep a toy you don't want instead of letting anyone else have it"

If you still feel the need to inform her about it, clearly you're not ready to move on.

Author:  Ysrayl [ Tue Nov 20, 2012 6:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to say I'm moving on without being a dick.

I'm going through something similar, myself.

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