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Author:  phi_frankwipe [ Sat Nov 17, 2012 5:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Girl with a boyfriend
Hey guys, I met this half-Asian girl 6 or 7 but she has an awesome beauty mark on her face and I gotta say, a nice face.

She has a 21 year old boyfriend at Colorado State of Mines but she really hasn't told anyone directly that she had a boyfriend, until I found out from her roommate. Although I was slightly hitting on her she never said she had a boyfriend, so she must be open to the idea.

Yesterday we went out drinking with friends and went to a party. We've had a couple fits because of misunderstandings in the past but today we were good. I started kino on her legs and her back. During the kino I was talking to another girl when she was in the middle. After a minute she left to go dancing with the rest of our friends. Later in the night I eventually grasped her hands and stroked her hair. She seemed to like it, and made a puppy face.

When you guys talk about the escalation ladder, do I have to escalate from the bottom the next time I meet her?

Also one of our friends definitely has had a crush on me for a couple months now, and she's accepted that I'm not going to get serious with her. But she is still interrupting me all the time :evil: during kinos, conversations, when I'm dancing. What should I do with her?
Author:  Snarg [ Sat Nov 17, 2012 6:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl with a boyfriend
She's probably losing interest in her boyfriend for one reason or another and looking for a replacement. Is the school you mentioned that he's attending far away from where she lives? If so, that only reinforces that she's probably losing interest in him.

You don't have to start at the bottom of the ladder, no. It's all about gauging the situation properly and determining how far you can go. I was never really a fan of viewing it as a ladder to begin with, though. There are so many variables revolving around every single person's unique situation that it's difficult for there to be a one-size-fits-all type of ladder.

You can use your friend to your advantage. You don't belong to anyone, and therefore, you can use this opportunity to show your target that other women have interest in you.
Author:  0uch [ Sat Nov 17, 2012 11:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl with a boyfriend
Long distance relationship don't work out
Author:  phi_frankwipe [ Sun Nov 18, 2012 9:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl with a boyfriend
Suppose I get her to kiss me, or even more. If she makes guilty remarks, what do I say to her?
Author:  Spark Plug [ Sun Nov 18, 2012 11:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl with a boyfriend
Dunno if this'll work but I heard it and it made me laugh:

HB "I have a boyfriend"
PUA "Yeah and I have a Maths test tommorrow"
HB "Huh?"
PUA "My bad I thought we were making a list of things we could cheat on"
Author:  phi_frankwipe [ Tue Nov 20, 2012 3:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl with a boyfriend
Hey guys, thanks for the advice. She seems to be waning away from her boyfriend but in the wrong direction. This guy I live across from (College dorm) has been talking to her a lot. He is the "nice guy," most of the time just texting her as far as I can see. He hangs out along with her though.

She is hanging around him and I think they are up to something. I don't know if she is gaming to make her more desirable, but it certainly makes me a little jealous. I thought she was going to be my first day game success. It's more about the loss because I was almost sure I had her in my hands.

I'm not an alpha, but I've been paying a lot of attention to my attitude and body language. I always acted like I didn't like her that much, although I have flirted her. She gave me the eye stare test and I passed. Every single time. She always looked away first.

It's kind of a hard situation for me because now I could still go for her and get the hatred of my friend or just forget about her and have a peaceful life. Not that I like the guy much anyway. He is passive so he won't fight me or anything. I've known him only about three months too.

What do you do in my situation?
Author:  Spark Plug [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 8:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl with a boyfriend
Quote:
Hey guys, thanks for the advice. She seems to be waning away from her boyfriend but in the wrong direction. This guy I live across from (College dorm) has been talking to her a lot. He is the "nice guy," most of the time just texting her as far as I can see. He hangs out along with her though.

She is hanging around him and I think they are up to something. I don't know if she is gaming to make her more desirable, but it certainly makes me a little jealous. I thought she was going to be my first day game success. It's more about the loss because I was almost sure I had her in my hands.

I'm not an alpha, but I've been paying a lot of attention to my attitude and body language. I always acted like I didn't like her that much, although I have flirted her. She gave me the eye stare test and I passed. Every single time. She always looked away first.

It's kind of a hard situation for me because now I could still go for her and get the hatred of my friend or just forget about her and have a peaceful life. Not that I like the guy much anyway. He is passive so he won't fight me or anything. I've known him only about three months too.

What do you do in my situation?
Up to you bro do what you thinks right
Author:  phyl6058 [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 11:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl with a boyfriend
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Author:  puaninja [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 12:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girl with a boyfriend
Is this an actual boyfriend, or a Manti T'eo type of boyfriend?

Who knows, this "boyfriend" you are so concerned about might just turn out to be some 48 y/o lesbian phys ed teacher who chats with girls online using fake dating profiles.
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